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virgin89
writes:my gf is a virgin and we just recently started fooling around.. she gets nothing out of fingering and i've posted about that on here before.. but bc she doesn't get anything out of that would her g-spot not give her anything either??
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reader, Tisha-1 + ♥, writes (7 May 2008):
 You are so sweet to be worried about her pleasure too. Annalisa gave you some good advice there, so I don't have much to add, other than to suggest that you ask her to show you what feels good to her. Ask her if she masturbates at all, she might not know how to, or what feels good to her. If you're both comfortable with this, you could try to include a vibrator, not a dildo-style one, but one that is used for body massages, and try that over her clitoris.
The clitoris can be very sensitive if it's exposed, it's kind of nestled at the top of the labia under folds of skin, so it might be best to rub that area with a flat hand, or just gently use your fingers or tongue, if you're comfortable with that to stimulate it gently.
Keep in mind that her brain is her largest sex organ, and romance and feeling loved and desired is very important!
Hope this helps!
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reader, Annalisa  +, writes (7 May 2008):
 First of all, she needs to be relaxed and not worry about whether she's going to come or not.
Second, your technique might be the problem.
Turn her on by kissing her slowly and passionately, run your fingers through her hair, letting your finger tips rub her scalp; wisper sweet nothings in her ears: breathing close to her ear will make her feel like you're really close to her and turn her on. You could gently lick her ear-lobe, too.
When a girl is turned on, her clytoris becomes sensitive, even before it's touched. So, when you see her blushing and notice her nipples getting hard, run the palm of your hand across her nipples, then down her front and over her genitalia. At this point, you can rub her clytoris with one or two fingers.
You might find that using your tongue is easyer than using your fingers!
As for the G-spot, it's inside her vagina and she might not be happy with you inserting your fingers, as this will tear her hymen. If she's happy for you to go in with your fingers, it's about two thirds of a finger up her vagina.
Your best bet is to experiment, gently, with different ways of touching her, as women differ in what they enjoy!
God bless and good luck!
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