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Boyfriend broke up then texted me saying "I hope you get over me soon"

Q.   Why did my ex boyfriend text me this? please help? ? ? ? My boyfriend of 5months suddenly tells me he doesn't want a relationship cos he got so used to the single life before we got together and he might cheat on me if we stay together, he doesn...

A.   12 March 2011: Wow, sounds like my ex! anyway. He sounds a tad immature. Guys are confussing. If there's one thing i've learned in my 17 years of breathing is that you should never trust them. They turn their backs on you so fast! it's crazy. Occasionally, they ... (read in full...)

Just split up, what can I do?

Q.   iv just split with my boyfriend and all i can think about is him. hes changed his number and blocked all contact so i cant get hold ov him. know this is for the best but just cant stop thinkin of him. when ever i go out everyones askin me if we ...

A.   12 March 2011: oh, trust me.. i've been in your shoes. When my ex and I broke up, I felt like my world was crashing down... and when I found out that he was dating a girl 2 days later.. well, I was more than devastated. It's normal for you to feel this way, but ... (read in full...)

My parents haven't even met him but they hate him!

Q.   My parents hate my boy friend. my boy friend and i have been dating for a little over two months. I love him with all my heart but my parents don't like him at all. He is 17 I am 14, he has lip pierced, ear gaged, hair dyed black, etc. I love ever...

A.   12 March 2011: I don't think hate is a proper term. More like dislike. Anyway, I'm 17 and went through something similar almost a year ago. My parents weren't too fond of my back then boyfriend. Honestly, there's nothing you can do about it but wait give them ... (read in full...)

Should I follow my heart back to my first love or stay with my current good guy?

Q.   well, i have been dating this guy for almost three months. We have been through a lot together, he was my friend through some extremely hard times in my life. and i appreciate it and do love him. but recently, me and this other guy and i have ...

A.   12 March 2011: Honestly, stay with your current boyfriend. Your ex is your ex for a reason. Believe me, this guy sounds like he is actually worth your time. Don't go back to your ex because he magically came back. ... (read in full...)

Why won't she believe..that I do really love her! Advise?

Q.   hi, i'm a 16 year-old male ... before i met my girlfriend she was with another guy but their relationship wasn't good he treated her badly and they had alot of arguments then broke up ... now everyday i'm telling her that i love her but she does...

A.   15 November 2010: It's very hard for females to believe their current boyfriends when they say they love them... specially if they have been in bad relationships. Not just say it.. that's not enough. but actually show her!! As time goes by, she will hopefull... (read in full...)

My boyfriend kisses some of his guy friends and I'm not talking a peck!

Q.   Ok, my boyfriend kisses some of his Guy friends and not just a little Peck I have talked to him about it n told him it really bothers me that I feel like he's cheating, he stopped for a while but only after a huge argument about it n now he's ...

A.   12 November 2010: He's probably bi-sexual.. although, some gay guys aren't ready to admit that they are gay and date girls as a gay of covering up. If this really bothers you.. tell him.. if he cares he will stop.. if now, kick him to the curb! This is not cute.. n... (read in full...)

I"m 14 and my best friends wants a FWB relationship

Q.   Im 14 and i just found out my best friend has liked me since 5th grade. We were on the phone a few days ago and he wants to be "friends with benifits" Well i like him alot to and i kinda do wanna be to. but he has a rep of just using people. I can't ...

A.   6 October 2010: He probably doesn't. I was in the same situation when I was 15 (i'm 17 now). At first I loved it.. but then I felt used. Don't put yourself in that position. Wait for the right guy and respect yourself!!!!!... (read in full...)

Less than a month and he says he's in love?

Q.   I have sort of been seeing a guy for the past couple of weeks now. I haven't even known him for a full month yet. He's already told me that he thinks he's fallen in love with me and that I am the only girl for him. Suddenly it feels like I find him ...

A.   14 September 2010: I can see why you feel uncomfortable. It hasn't even been in a month and this why is already 'in love' To me love is a very strong word and feeling. The fact that you are his first real girlfriend could have a lot to do with this. He doesn't know ... (read in full...)

Time is not healing me at all! What should I do about my boy situation?

Q.   I’m 15, never dated and never kissed and really f**ked over. There’s this boy. Let’s call him x. I’ve been inappropriately close to him 3 times in the past year. We became tight over internet chat over the July holidays. He always made me...

A.   10 September 2010: First of all, I'm sorry. I turned 17 last month and have had my fair share of 'a**holes". Guys are hard to understand. My ex was a total prick after we broke up and yet i'm not over him (we broke up in July). I know how you feel though. Because I ... (read in full...)

My bf took me off his Top Friends list on Facebook!! Why would he do that?

Q.   My boyfriend has a top friend list on his face book for 15 people and i was in it. Today for some reason he took me out of it! We see each other everyday and he is so loving and kind. And when i got home from his house i noticed he replaced me with ...

A.   11 May 2010: Relax, its not big deal.. Just a silly application. At least he didn't 'replace' you with another chick.... (read in full...)

Is it possible to overcome shyness/social phobias and go on to do what you want in life?

Q.   I know this isn't really a relationship problem, although it affects my relationship, it's more of a life problem. I feel like I don't know what Iwant to do with my life, like I have no passion or real desire to do any specific career. I have begun ...

A.   8 April 2010: I know how you feel because I've been there. I was super shy when I was younger. I didn't speak at all in school. Some thought I was even mute! I was (still am) shy, but not as shy as I was in the past. First of all, you need to take baby step... (read in full...)

I've never even kissed a girl before. Is this normal?

Q.   Help, I have recently became depressed because I have never been kissed before let alone have had a girlfriend. Is this normal? All the other males have girlfriends and it makes me sick and depressed when I can't find one of my own, hell some are ...

A.   30 March 2010: Of course its normal! I'm 16 and never had a boyfriend. Cheer up (: you will find her ... Don't rush into things! Good luck.... (read in full...)

Facebook concerns.

Q.   *OP's own title* 1, I see more and more people installing something like ""who checked your profile""... That creeps me ,because I do like to check profile with innocent curiosity, but I dont want to look like a stalker because IM not.. Do you gu...

A.   25 March 2010: Page views doesn't count. :) Wall interactions do. ... (read in full...)

Unreasonable???

Q.   I need URGENT advice here, Me and and my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years were due to view an apartment this evening which had been planned a few weeks ago. We were hoping to move into this apartment on 24th April, very soon. There has been a lot of ...

A.   24 March 2010: I think you're overreacting. Don't get me wrong, I know this must be super important for you.. but his brother's gf is having a baby. He is trying to be nice. Chill out, i'm sure he loves you.... (read in full...)

Is my cousin gay and putting on a front to be straight?

Q.   I was 15 and he was 16 and About two years ago over my cousin's house i slept with him in the bed and we were talking. He said all the gay boys names who were coming to his school and he said i was one, in a playing way i think he is always playing, ...

A.   24 March 2010: Could be. I have a lot of gay friends and they tend to act that way. Maybe he is scared and doesn't want people to know that he is gay because he fears rejection . He probably feels the need to make fun of gay people to make others think that he's ... (read in full...)

Is there a secret to the first kiss?

Q.   how can i get her in for the first kiss? is there a secret to it?...

A.   1 December 2009: Stay calm and enjoy the moment. (; ... (read in full...)

I would love to have sex with her but I don't want to lose my virginity just yet.

Q.   Hi aunts, I need some advice. I have a girlfriend and I absolutely adore her, she feels the same way about me, and I'll never do anything to pressure her or hurt her. See I'm a pretty nice guy (14), really sensitive and caring, I'm not like those ...

A.   7 March 2009: I think you're way too young. I am 15 and I am definitely not ready to have sex. I think you should wait a little more. When you are 100% sure of your decision. French kissing is a great option in my opinion and a turn on-then again that would make ... (read in full...)

What can I do? I'm so confused, guilty and regretful for having sex so early. Would telling him this help?

Q.   I'm 16. I just had sex with my boyfriend for the past year. I love him and I'm lucky to be with him, but I feel so bad about sleeping with him. It was my first time and I feel like I gave up a part of myself. I'm scared people are going to find out ...

A.   7 March 2009: Well, what's done is done. Unfortunately you can't go back in time. D; Sad but true. Try not to worry too much about it. And if it makes you feel better, talk to him about it. Maybe he'll cheer you up. Listen to music, hang out with friends,do s... (read in full...)

Views on virginity

Q.   Hey, I was just wondering what age did people lose their virginity and having lost it at that age do you wish you had been younger/older when it happened? I'm not thinking of having sex or anything quite yet, I'm just curious :) Thanks x...

A.   3 March 2009: I'm 15 and still a virgin. (: I'm trying to save myself for marriage...or somebody really special..but its so hard.... (read in full...)

How should I prepare for my first, real high school kiss?

Q.   I had my first kiss a while ago, and it was barely anything. just a peck, so I have virtually no experience. How should I prepare for my first, real high school kiss (tongue, etc.)? I don't want to be bad at it, you know?...

A.   15 February 2009: Hmm, well like both people above said, there's no way to prepare. I had my frist male kiss a month ago.. (:... just work with him..play with your tounge and ENJOY!... (read in full...)

Being gay and a virgin, should I worry about the first time?

Q.   Hello I am 26 and a virgin. I have known that i'm gay since i was 13 and i have come no closer to having a relationship in the next 13 years. Never been kissed or anything! I'm not out but i've been using a lot of gay dating websites and still...

A.   15 February 2009: Don't think about it too hard. I know it must be hard for you because you're 26 and it's no big deal for me since i'm only 15. But that day will come...trust me. You will find a nice guy. Try maybe changing your appearance a bit. Don't change ... (read in full...)

I am soooooo unhappy!

Q.   Hiyya everyone, I'm 11 and i am soooooo unhappy. At school there's this girl who thinks we're like best friends, and i just hate her i only have say 2 half close friends, i feel like i have no friends, like i don;'t WANT an of the girls in my clas...

A.   15 February 2009: Hmm, well you're only 11. I'm 15, i think you're just going through a tough stage in your life. I know how you feel, i feel like that myself too. Don't worry. Maybe ask the guy?? i know it can be awfully difficult but it's better than not knowing.... (read in full...)

How can I persuade my wife to make this video?

Q.   I want to video tape my wife playing with herself but she doesn't want to how can I convince her to do it for me?...

A.   15 February 2009: I don't think you should force her. She is obviously not comfortable doing this. Don't make her do something she doesn't want to do to pleasure you.... (read in full...)

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