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writes:If you were 45 years old and had your 21 year old girlfriend ask you to bed for a blow job and sex would you choose a nature programme (that could be recorded) or your girlfriend.i would appreciate your comments
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reader, alex74  +, writes (29 July 2012):
 I absolutely love them. So I honestly would never turn down a blowjob. I like Cerebrus' idea, though. Problem solved!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2012): Maybe your age has something to do with it? When I was 21 y.o. I didn't know how to give a decent b.j. until I was at least 30 y.o. lol ;)
All kidding aside. 1) men love tv. 2) men love television 3) Couldn't you just wait until his program was over with??
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2012): If I was a 45 year old man I would have just gotten you to do it there and then, best of both worlds really.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2012): 0P, you're female... You wouldn't have sex if you weren't in the mood, and neither would a man. He just wasn't in the mood. Grow up.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (28 July 2012):
Perhaps he just wasn’t in the mood, and some of those nature programmes can be fascinating and very educational, you know. Would you really have lost the urge if you’d just waited until his documentary was finished? Why not broaden your horizons and watch the programme with him, it’s got to be better than the reality TV and celebrity-driven drivel that our screens are full of most of the time. If you’re ready to have sex of any kind, you really ought to know him well enough to know what things he likes. Weren’t you being a bit selfish picking the very moment when there’s something on the box he enjoys watching?
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 July 2012):
 Well, I'm 64-years-old and have enjoyed some girlfriends perhaps younger than I care to admit. In short, I'd record the program.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (28 July 2012):
 All over the world, men will be nodding wisely and thinking "Now you know how WE feel when we are rejected after trying to initiate sex with women".
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reader, oldbag +, writes (28 July 2012):
 Hi
The nature programme excuse is hilarious, he was telling you something there and you haven't got the message.
You have annoyed him in some way I bet and so he didnt feel like having sex with you.You being 21 is irrelevant your his partner and he just wasn't up for it.
Maybe try to find a lad closer to your own age,preferably one that doesn't own an Xbox,he might have more energy for sex and never say no.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (28 July 2012):
 As a man in the neighborhood of 45 years old. I'm marginally qualified to answer this question. I, and apparently every other guy who has read this in the last hour, believe that there is a lot more to this than a hypothetical question. We are staring at a Stung woman who is looking for ammunition. We are contemplating a no win situation, and we are terrifies to put our foot in it.
I'm going to give you some honest information about 45 year old men, and I am going to hope that you don't see fit to go trash my account. Here are some reasons that you shouldn't:
1 I'm willing to take a risk to help you.
2 I'm answering a very short very loaded question with very little to go on.
3 You asked for help. I'm not meddling uninvited.
4 Even if you think I am wrong, I am giving you the best help I can.
Men hate change. The older we get the more we hate it. If I have set a schedule for the day I don't move from it easily. Unfortunately, my customers don't understand that. Today I had one change an appointment by one hour. That made me miss my lunch time, and made me split a project into two sessions. You probably think that is nothing, but to me it is a big deal.
Next, middle aged men get tired. I love working with youth, but one day last week I just couldn't do it. I had to send my group off to other activities so I could rest. I'm not in my 20's or even 30's. While it would be flattering to receive such an invitation from a 21 year old woman, There are many days I just wouldn't be up for it.
Last 45 is not so young that Erectile dysfunction is not an occasional problem. It is very embarrassing and difficult to face early on. Later as we get used to it we can joke about the little blue pill.
So in conclusion, before you jump to the conclusion that he doesn't love you, is not attracted to you, or is seeing someone else, think about how different he is from you with an additional 24 years on his back.
I guess the answer to your direct question is "it Depends".
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