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Can you get STDs by kissing?

Q.   Are there any STDs out there that you can get by kissing? I don't really understand what the different kinds of STDs are. I know about HIV since we learned about it in school......

A.   27 July 2008: like many std's HIV can only be transmitted through sex or direct blood to blood contact meanin if you have a cut and she has a cut and she's infected (really low chances) it's really rare but, there are a few that you can get without a cut in your ... (read in full...)

I've never kissed. I'm really worried that my tongue is too big...

Q.   im really insecure. ive never kissed before and im worried that my tongue is too big. is this a problem for guys. also any first time tips???...

A.   27 July 2008: I deffinately wouldn't wory about the size of your tounge. me personally I love getting tounge when I kiss but, everyone is diffrent. the first kiss is usually a little akward just try to relax. tips to ake a better kiss. try to match your li... (read in full...)

Am I a slut like everyone says or is this just a phase?

Q.   During the outcome of this year, my life has brought me many different things, new experiences and alot of surprises. Alot of people are labeling me as a "slut", I am wondering, do you think the same? or is something else in my life effectin...

A.   27 July 2008: slut is just another term people use to get them to do things (peer pressure don't ya love it) I have had 22 partners and never been called a slut yet a young girl like you has 1 and is interested in several guys and people are calling you a slut ... (read in full...)

My period has come earlier than expected after losing my virginity in the weekend, is this normal?

Q.   I lost my virginity at the weekend and now my period has come around 10 days early, is this normal? ...

A.   27 July 2008: it's very normal. there have been many studies into it but, they are not publish in normal reading materials mainly medical journals ect. having sex just the physical aspect can through off your period but, if your having sex on a regular basis it ... (read in full...)

Lately it's taking me an hour and a half to orgasm. How can I cope?

Q.   I feel sexually trapped.... masterbation doesnt work anymore... lately its taken me about an hour and a half to orgasm which is extremely long for me. i dont have a gf and im left feeling in the dark alone. my world just isnt bright without meeting ...

A.   27 July 2008: I would try diffrent meathods of masturbating. trust me there are many diffrent meathods. if you can get a subscription to american curves or something. it's like maxim but, has many useful articles and many layouts of girls that will help get the ... (read in full...)

We used protection, but now my period is late - could I be pregnant?

Q.   hi cupids, im abit scared as my periods have gone all weird :-S i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months who i love dearly on the 13th june, yeah friday the 13th! and it was an amazin experience, he made it so special and i will never ever...

A.   27 July 2008: well, it is possible but, having sex period can really mess with your period in many ways like rough sex can through of the ph balance rough sex can tell your uterous not to produce an egg all kinds of things. if you did use a condom and your on the ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to make yourself like someone?

Q.   There is this guy who likes me a lot and have for years. He's very sweet to me and would make a great boyfriend, which is what i really want. The problem is that im not attracted to him at all. I still have very strong feelings for the guy I lost my ...

A.   27 July 2008: 1st the guy who used you is a jerk personally I think he's lower than scumm esp. if he's experienced that is one of the 3rd worst things someone can do. (1 is rape 2 is murder) if you want to change who you like start with what you like about hi... (read in full...)

Have I lost my virginity yet?

Q.   i had physical contact with my boyfriend, he inserted half of his penis inside my vagina and i had a drop of blood come out off.he sometimes puts his finger inside my vagina and after that hes inserts a little of his penis and i am now confused ...

A.   27 July 2008: basically virginity is not having a penis inserted. so by inserting his penis even just half way you lost your virginity. sex is technically the exchange of body fluids from genetalia so yes you did have complete sex you just didn't get to orgas... (read in full...)

Can you lose your virginity, due to a broken hymen, without having intercourse, and is sex painful?

Q.   1. hi, ive been taking intense gymnastics and ballet training for the past 8 years is it possible that my hymen could have been torn already? 2. when u do have sex do u bleed? is the pain unbearable? 3. how many times do u have sex before u fee...

A.   27 July 2008: it's actually really common for female atheletes to break their hymen. my cousin was really pricess like hardly ever did anyhting athletic and went horse riding at 15 and broke her hymen. so I wouldn't worry about it at all. when a virgin has sex ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid of him sleeping with someone else if I end it! I'm also pregnant and he's in the army.

Q.   I'm in desperate need of help, i have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. We had a few one night stands with other people while we broke up. He is in the army so he is away alot, he went away for 5 months and i found out i was pregnant ...

A.   27 July 2008: to be honest every guy freaks out at some point when they find out they are going to be a father. he's extremely happy to be a dad but, it's going to change both your lives in a very profound way. when he's off with his mates or partying he's ... (read in full...)

Fallen for my driving instuctor... But he's 30 and I'm a virgin!

Q.   Hi During my time learning to drive i got on really well with my instructor. Since passing my test we have been texting flirty/dirty messages. i want to take things futher but he is only up for fun and i am a virgin. he make me feel so good and...

A.   27 July 2008: first the sad reality is if you take things further you will only end up hurting yourself. trust me your first time you will remember for the rest of your life so, I would make it with someone who cares about you too! how you feel how you think ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is telling me my vagina is too wide, what should I do?

Q.   my boyfriend told me that i have a wide vagina and theres no feeling for him when we have sex. what could be the problem?, and what can i do to fix it?...

A.   27 July 2008: ok first this is not a problem that is beyond your control. second it could easily be him if he's average or small it makes a lot of differance. if he's willing to be patient you can tighten the muscles with a little work. it's like any other ... (read in full...)

Having trouble socially...any advice for me?

Q.   I'm really depressed over the fact that I had never had girlfriend.Several hours ago I was crying and feeling incredible pain,just like always.A bit later my best(and only) friend calls.I was in no mood to talk because of my depression,which he ...

A.   27 July 2008: I am kind a an expert at this most girls will respond to casual converstion much better than some cheesy line. if your that nerveous about it pick people your not really attracted to but, could be friends with. just talk about anything it could be ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for my boyfriend to have pictures of of celebrity on his cell phone?

Q.   my boyfriend has pictures of Vida Guerra in his cell phone, it bothers me, but should i worry.....

A.   27 July 2008: Absolutely not! it's some celebrity most likely he's never gonna meet guys will always look but, a large minority 46% never cheat. if it was your best friend or something then you might have room to worry but, some celeb there is nothing to worry ... (read in full...)

My friend has been withdrawing from me...how hsould I handle this?

Q.   First, let me start by saying I'm not a teenager, instead a woman in her 30's. I have fallen head over heals with a friend of mine, but have NO CLUE what he is thinking!!! We have known each other for almost 10 years. We were more 'friends of a fr...

A.   27 July 2008: sadly society has developed some strange traditions concerning male-female relations (i.e. waiting 3 days to call someone you like.) I would just bluntly ask him in person something like "joe (inset his name) we have been such great friends talking ... (read in full...)

What can I do about my girlfriend not being ready to have sex? I'm tired of waiting.

Q.   Okay - So, I've been dating a girl that studies with me (collage) for about 10+ months already, and we haven't had sex yet. We are both virgins - believe it or not! I really like her and I know she really likes me, but I don't know why she doesn...

A.   27 July 2008: sadly their is not much you can do in this position. for the majority of girls it will be near agonizing the first time sometimes several times but, once your through the pain period it's really good. the best thing I can suggest is try it and ... (read in full...)

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