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writes:Alright, I'm sorry but this is going to be really long. So I have a sort of love quadrangle happening. There is a guy I like. I have liked him for about a year, lets call him 1. Then there is a guy who I think likes me and who I have been friends with for a while and I think I may be starting to like, call him 2. And guy 3 is a guy who likes me who I would never date. OK. So, guy 1 I have liked for a while and he is a super shy sweet heart who doesn't seem to ever talk around me. He only seems to when our friends are around to push him... IDK, but sometimes I flirt and he flirts back. And I'm not sure if I just like him because of his looks since he and I have never had a really serious conversation. Just flirting or quiet.(We talked about classes once.) Then there is number 2. He and I have been friends for almost 2 years and we hang out and I never thought of dating him before but now all the sudden the idea has been popping in my head more frequently. And he is 1 1/2 years younger than me and I don't normally date younger guys and he's blonde(I like dark haired guys, I know know that is superficial but I know what I am attracted to). So he has been very attentive to me lately and is even paying to come see me in a show that not many of my friends are willing to spend the money to see. And my friend had a dream that I had sex with him which freaked me out because I hadn't told her I was thinking of him. Then there is guy three. He is a handsome guy and very nice but seems playerish. All the girls think he is charming but I would compare he and I to Gaston and Belle from Beauty and the Beast. I'm just not interested and he seems too into himself. But he does act nice to me and does favors for me and has a secret he has been refusing to tell me. I just don't know what to do because I don't want to give up on 1 but I am pretty sure I wouldn't date 3 and number 2 is just confusing me. Who should I be with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Me thinks the woman protests to much. Number 3 will be your final choice.
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reader, Lila +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Number 2,best friend types make the best relationships, as long as there is some chemistry,but chemistry isn't all it's made out to be after you've been with someone for a while it wears off,so you want someone who cares about you,makes you laugh,and you enjoy spending time with.Good Luck!
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