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It makes me sick that I keep visiting prostitutes but I can't stop. Please help!

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Question - (28 May 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2015)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

i:am lonely an can"t stop picking up prostitues. it makes me sick and I don't no what to do.please,please help me

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A male reader, dougbcoll United States +, writes (3 June 2015):

dougbcoll agony aunt i do not have too much info on you to go by but: your between 51-59 either lonely, or if married you do not have the type relationship with her that you would like " no sex with wife or very little?

are you cheating on your wife or you have been going to whores because you have not desired a relationship and just want sex.

either way you feel guilty, empty when its over with the women. nothing there except sex. no bond, no love, no relationship.

find a church, find a preacher to talk too. seek help of someone near you. it can make a difference.

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A female reader, Euphoria30 Germany +, writes (29 May 2015):

Dear OP,

When you are doing something that's not good for you, but you can't stop, it's an addiction. You need professional help for that.

You need to find ways to get out of your loneliness, which means learning new things about spending your time and money.

AND also you need to find a way to get rid of this old habit, a resolution and also effective strategies to help you stay away from the brothels and streets.

Maybe you want to give us a little more information about why you feel lonely? Have you been single for a long time? Are you married to someone you have troubles with? Do you feel too unattractive to find a real partner?

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (29 May 2015):

olderthandirt agony aunt"Notsohappy has it pegged. You are playing a dangerous "game" and you are damaging yourself emotionally to assume a prostitute will fix your problems. They might get you a disease but won't cure loneleness.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (29 May 2015):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntHere's some "help".... Imagine, that, one night, you pick up a prostitute who has a disease/condition which will cause YOUR DICK TO FALL OFF!!!!! You "pick her up" and enjoy her for a few minutes.... and, a while afterwards, your DICK FALLS OFF....

Will you be happy, then?????

There are some things that even us DOGS of men shouldn't do!!!

Good luck...

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States + , writes (28 May 2015):

Tisha-1 agony auntI found a site for you; it sounds similar to AA for people who are dealing with an addiction to alcohol.

I see they have meetings all over the country; you can find a meeting near you here:

I think you have taken the first step by even asking this question.

Please go to that website, or call them here:

USA / Canada: 1-800-477-8191

elsewhere: +1-713-869-4902

Office hours are 10 am - 6 pm Central Time (Monday - Friday)


If you are in the US, as I write this I think you can call today, right now. Please take your second step to getting the help you know you deserve.

Best wishes to you.

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