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writes:my g/f for a year wants to go to las vegas to spend the weekend with an old guy friend of hers and a group of friends of theres i have never met any of them. she has some history with him meaning she lived with him , and has slept with him. says it was only sex nothing more . he gave her lectures daily as too why she cannot get attached to him etc... anyway she asked how i would feel about it , i told her id feel uncomfortable , she got upset and is demanding a reason why i would feel uncomfortable, then accused me of not trusting her .. i dont know what to say as to why i feel uncomfortable mind helping? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): Why don't you ask her how she would feel if it was the other way around and it was you going away for the w/end with a old female friend and friends that she has never met?? I'm sure she would see it differently then. And she did ask how you felt about it and you were honest and told her so I don't know why she is getting so upset. If it as me I'd feel the exact same as you. Maybe if you knew the other people she was going with it might be a help.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (13 February 2008):
 Dude.....NO WAY. NO WAY.Uh..... you just don't up and leave to go to Vegas with a bunch of people from your past and she doesnt want you around?Something is rotten in Denmark, buddy. And it's her.If she is Demanding a reason, she is already guilty. She said it was "Sex and nothing more?" Sorry to be blunt, but I guarantee she will be having sex with this guy if she goes. Either demand to go with her or make sure you are gone when she gets back from Vegas. Better yet, tell her when you are kicking her to the curb that since you know what's gonna happen in Vegas, She mind as well stay in Vegas!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 .. because you love her so much and care about her, otherwise , you wouldn't give a damned! LOL! Tell her you felt jealous because you are not by her side.If the situation was reversed, how would she feel about you?Cant blame you for feeling uncomfortable when she goes with those ex's.You got to reign in your feelings next time to prevent another occurrence and you better trust her.
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