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male
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30-35,
*yan S
writes:HelloAlthough i recently asked a question, another issue from this arose.Basically, the girl i met online who says she loves me, and also who i text and speak to everyday. She commented on my facebook status, and my mates started to as well so we all ended up speaking. Me and her were flirting and they were saying we should get together properly. I asked her out on instant messenger but she suddenly had to go but asked me to text her.I texted her, asking if we could be together, and she said she's worried that i won't like her as she's not the thinnest girl ever. I said thats not a problem at all, but again she had replied saying she was going to sleep.This morning i texted her saying how much i really want to be with her, and asked whether she feels the same and this is what she replied:"Ofcourse i feel the same. And i wanna be with you, but i've got one thing hanging over my head which i feels needs sorting. Mums on the edge of leaving us, and i feel i need to sort that and get through being stressy and mardy, and i resuse to take it out on you. we will definetly be together though babe, i promise xxxxxxx"I replied and she then texted back saying she didnt say anything about this the night before because she didn't want to believe it.That night on msn she never mentioned the text or anything, and it's worried me.In my mind i'm asking myself, is she lying? if its true, why not mention it? will she keep her promise? is she just buying for time? I feel bad for asking about her again but it's like the only way i can get a proper unbiassed view. I honestly don't care how big she is or anything, I just like her for her and want to meet her properly.Any replies will be truely appreciatedThanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2010): she might have personal issues going on. I would text her and say I really care about you. I do not care about your weight. I understand you have personal issues going on and I would like to be there for you however feel you need your space. PLease let me know what I can do to help. And then I would let her come to you. I hope this helps
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