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How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife?

Q.   I am alone in a foreign land. My wife and family are not with me. How can I satisfy my sextual urge without cheating on my wife? ...

A.   20 August 2012: I agree with the most comments in your question, Think many times before you do such decisions, you're still married and Sexual urges or even lust is not a reason to cheat. I am pretty sure that you do not want this to do unto you.... (read in full...)

Why do men seem to prefer fellatio to intercourse?

Q.   I would like to know one of two things. why do men get so much pleasure out of a blowjob and less out of sex? I also have a few fantasies. How to I communicate this to my boyfriend of five years? Will he think I'm weird if I want to try out som...

A.   14 August 2012: 1. Men get too stimulated during Blow Job because mouth is more tighter and tongue plus warm feeling inside the mouth adds more stimulation that's why. 2. I think the reason why your BF doesn't agree with you in terms of having anal sex is becau... (read in full...)

Girlfriend tells me now that she never liked doing sexual things and only did them to make me happy!

Q.   Well I'm mainly just wondering if I should be telling my girlfriend sorry? Or expressing my draining trust in her? The problem emerged quite recently when she told me that she didn't like talking about sex and that she wanted to wait longer for it. ...

A.   2 August 2012: this is normal to be felt by Girls, If you keep taking about sex to her, she might felt or think you're just using her because of LUST and not because of love, Explore Everything, let her feel that she is your PRINCESS, don't let her to feel that ... (read in full...)

Good relationship or good sex?

Q.   I always wanted the relationship, but is having better sex worth leaving? I love my bf with ALL my heart and we are both stable and mature enough to get married. but my friend wants to sleep with me, and unlike my low testosterone bf, this guy can ...

A.   25 July 2012: I definitely go for good relationship! Its not about a temporary pleasure that you can get, its about the love and foundation that you made together, and I'm pretty sure your all sacrifices just to make him happy and to be with him, If you really ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid my lack of interest in sex will drive him back to porn

Q.   Me and my partner have been through a bit of a rough patch recently due to his porn habits! Everything has been great for the past 10 months apart from our sex life, I've completely lost interest which isn't like me. I'm scared that this will drive ...

A.   18 October 2011: I believe that if you in a married life. Sex with your partner is your obligation. That my opinion. Sex is an important way to show the sentiments and feelings to a specific person and that means good sex can also provide to a tighter bond between ... (read in full...)

B/f wants to give me oral sex but I feel insecure about it

Q.   Hi :) So just wanted to talk about a problem im having and hope you guys can offer some reassurance.. Iv been dating a guy for about 3 months now and its all going great. we've been sleeping together for about a month now and really care about ...

A.   18 October 2011: Both men and women rank oral sex highly when it comes to what they enjoy most in the bedroom - and no wonder! Not only is oral sex great foreplay, but when done right it's also one of the most intimate and mindblowing sexual acts you and your ... (read in full...)

Does a low sex drive mean he no longer loves me?

Q.   If a man no longer wants sex with his partner, is it because he no longer is attracted to her or is not in love with her anymore? Or can a man be in love and attracted to a woman but rarely want sex?...

A.   2 September 2011: That was the sex on how affecting the relationship. I think sex is not the only factor that you may know how much he loves you. There are lots of cause why men have a low sex drive it might be stress or having sexual dysfunction. But the problem ... (read in full...)

Kinky, how can I get my wife to be more kinky?

Q.   I really want to get my wife to be kinky.... she is just very shy (still) in bed and barely like to do anything outside of penatrating. I would live for her to [do more adventurous acts involving oral sex and anal play]. we do [cunnilingus] ...

A.   2 September 2011: Talk about what you're going to do ahead of time, and be sure that it turns you both on. Plan ahead, even deciding on special music. Try out your equipment ahead of time. Test everything, and make sure it's in an easy-to-reach place so you don'... (read in full...)

She asked me out for coffee, but is she wanting sex?

Q.   Can everyone tell me why a MARRIED woman has just asked me out for coffee??? I am married, too. Is she looking to start an affair with me or could she just like me as a friend only? Is there something wrong with two married people going out for ...

A.   17 August 2011: There's nothing wrong to take out and have a coffee with someone as long are the intention is pure. But if you are not comfortable with that situation don't get out with her.... (read in full...)

Is it bad that my boyfriend holds the back of my head during sex?

Q.   Is it bad that my bf holds the back of my head during sex ?.he does it gently,and usually does that when i'm on top of him.sometimes he has held my head when i have given him oral too.he also holds my hand during sex sometimes too....

A.   17 August 2011: The things that you state is normal and nothing wrong as long as you are not hurt and both enjoy sex together.... (read in full...)

Erectile dysfunction....is it really so common?

Q.   Hi, I really wonder about this issue for a long time. I hope you can give me some ideas about the reality. So I'm in my late forties, and I really struggle with libido, and erectile dysfunction. My doctor says even I have no medical problems...

A.   29 July 2011: More than 100 million men are estimated to be suffering from some form of erectile dysfunction (ED). Fortunately, there are many options for those who have problems achieving or maintaining a decent erection.Considered as safer alternatives to ED ... (read in full...)

What can I do to get him in the mood more often?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for two years now. and we foot fool around like we used too. my main issue is that he just isnt in the mood anymore. in the begging it was fun and you never knew whats going to happen. Now, i have tried ...

A.   29 July 2011: The best thing you should do is knowing your man. Learn things what a man can make it happy. Did you know that sex is an important way to show the sentiments and feelings to a specific person and that means good sex can also provide to a tighter ... (read in full...)

Come too soon during the first round! How do I last longer? And how do I get harder faster for the second round?

Q.   hy all whenever i have sex as soon as i enter her i feel i have started to cum i last less then a minute until i get hard again then i can last till an hour also. And whats the fasted way to get a hard on faster after cumming once Thnks ...

A.   20 July 2011: Focus on how good it feels: When your penis is being stimulated, concentrate on how amazing it feels. If you're not being stimulated, trying stimulating yourself. A lot of men get shy about this kind of thing, and I believe that erectile dysfunction ... (read in full...)

Is cybersex cheating?

Q.   I have a cybersex habit. I had it before I met my wife and I still have it. I have a very high sex drive and my wife just doesn't keep up with me by any stretch. To me it is just a step beyond jerking myself off. In fact, that's what it is. Some...

A.   20 July 2011: Yes, because even you never seen each other but the thing you do in internet is a sign of cheating. Disrespect on your partner. As what you said in your story is a sign of psychological problem on you. I think to help your self try to divert your ... (read in full...)

Is my husband having sex with someone else?

Q.   me and my husband havent had sex in about 3 days on the 4th day we had sex he came extremly fast and it was thick kind of gooey like...is that a sigh of him having sex with with some one else?...

A.   18 July 2011: Oh' Don't be paranoid. It maybe because he miss you that time and he has a good mood. Or maybe he take a pill that makes him high in sexual desire so both of you can achieve sexual satisfaction. My advice on you is don't think negative for your ... (read in full...)

Stress is damaging our relationship and our sex life

Q.   Hi... My boyfriend and I have been in a very long, and for the most part, very good relationship. We have been having an absolutely awful couple of weeks...both on his part and mine. Lately, I feel like he has been very selfish and inconsid...

A.   18 July 2011: Just as prolonged stress affects health, so too does prolonged stress affect one's sex life. In fact, loss of libido (desire) is one of the main symptoms in place for people who are under stress. But don't bother its not too late to do some thing ... (read in full...)

Wife not satisfied unless we are in the missionary postion

Q.   hi am mrd for 2 years .my wife never gets satisfied until we both have missionary sex with her on top of me she can never be satisfied under me am worried please help .and by her telling me am satisfied does it mean she had an orgasm she ...

A.   14 July 2011: I think your wife too much enjoying that position. Don't be bother time will come that she never enjoy it. Try new position that meet her satisfaction.... (read in full...)

Why do guys have sex on the first date and then think the woman is a slut?

Q.   I met this guy about a month ago, and we were having a nice time watching TV and we held hands, not sure if we were attracted to each other and then we moved to the bedroom and started foreplay which was okay, and then he stopped and said "sorry, ...

A.   14 July 2011: Because no girl is at the right mind if she allow a guy to do things like sex on her at the first date.... (read in full...)

Could it be possible he picked up genital-warts over 3 years ago?

Q.   HELLPP! Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and last month we found out he has genital warts. I don't have them and now I'm paranoid he has cheated on me. He is the love of my life and I don't want to put him through me grilling him if ...

A.   5 July 2011: There lots risk factor to have genital warts and it maybe one of the reason like. * Alcohol use * Compromised immune system due to such conditions as HIV/AIDS, taking corticosteroids, organ transplant medications, or cancer and cancer t... (read in full...)

Condom questions....

Q.   hi this is a slightly embarrassing question but I would like to know the answer. I'm a virgin and my girlfriend has been wanting to do it for some time and so do I but something ocurred to me, that I'm a little worried about. Say you are having sex ...

A.   5 July 2011: To be safe its better to put a new one. Use a new condom for each act of vaginal, anal or oral sex.... (read in full...)

Should I end the relationship based on this one factor?

Q.   I am wondering if I should leave my boyfriend. We have been together for nearly four months and everything is going great, except for in the bedroom. He has barely touched me the whole time we have been together and we have only been intimate t...

A.   16 June 2011: Erectile Dysfunction is hard for a men to discuss it with her partners because they feel offended. I suggest to make an effort to help him without his knowing. Read more male enhancement reviews to discover tips,exercises and devices you can use to ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend has short fuse. Is it me? Please help me understand

Q.   Hi there. My bf and I have been together for 18 months. Things are okay but I have one issue with him, his temper. He has a really bad temper and loses his cool really easily. He is not violent and I don’t think he ever would be but I struggle with ...

A.   16 June 2011: If your boyfriend attitude is bad as what you said in your story I guess you are there to change him and to understand him. Tell him what you don't want to him. But make sure to confront him at the right time when you think he is in good mood and ... (read in full...)

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