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writes:Hi aunts and uncles! I recently met a guy at work and we exchanged contacts. We've been texting nonstop since. We just went on a date (is going out one to one with a guy considered a date?) but when we had our heart to heart talk he told me he was kinda upset that he was having relationship problems with his gf. I've met jerks throughout the course of my life and I'm glad he didn't keep his relationship from me. But at the same time I feel that it's a pity that he's attached. I'm not saying I wish they would break up and neither would I ever think of breaking them up but I think I have a crush on him. He's decent and he'a nice. But I'm so confused over how I feel towards him. Is it even normal to be confused over how I feel towards him?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 March 2012):
 In my opinion, going out one on one in a preplanned manner is a date...
it's good that he was honest with you but he should have been honest with you earlier on.
and yes your confusion is normal.
Personally I would not continue a relationship with this man he has a gf. IF he ends the relationship with her, once he is over her, then perhaps you could consider it.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 March 2012):
 It's OK to feel confused.... HOWEVER, DON'T react to that confusion in an inappropriate way...
I suggest you stay "on the sidelines" for a while.... and, if this guy should ever dump his "girlfriend" consider that he THEN may be available to you, and make you thoughts/feelings known to him then - NOT BEFORE!!!!
Good luck...
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reader, joeyb67p +, writes (7 March 2012):
 He is obviously testing the waters and interested in dating you. It would be okay to date him and if things progress ask for a commitment. Just keep things in prospective.
Honesty is a good thing, but you should be careful that he is not just trying to use you to supplement a bad relationship.
Good luck!!
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