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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): Yes, it's even more fun to watch her and a few freinds clean her stuff out of your house and move out... then you can wonder if they're having sex together...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2008): No and Hell No
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Ha, you ask if it will be fun? What a weird question to ask when the thought of it turns you on.
Now, you could ask your girlfriend to do this, but don't expect a "yes". Expect her to be pissed off though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): Not if you're a jealous guy, plus what if the man is hotter than you. AND what the does your girlfriend think of this idea?! if you have to question whether it is fun to watch, you obviously aren't into it!XxXx
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 I don't pretend to understand what some people are into. Do you want to become ex-boyfriend/girlfriend? Not sure how long you have been together and if you want to risk throwing away what you have?Fantasies are fantasies.We had sex at a new years eve party in front of another couple once. We had only known eachother a couple of months at the time. That's the only thing, nothing ever like that again, or remotely like what you are talking about. We used to joke about 'group sex' but that was what it was joking.In reality a lot of people would run a mile.Fiona.
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Yes, ask her first about Ex boyfriends and see how you feel then....it's a free country though! Hannah xx
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Correct me if im wrong but isnt that just like having your cake and NOT eating it??Why wouldnt you eat the cake yourself?!
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reader, Laura-x +, writes (21 August 2008):
Oooh personally, I'd be so angry, upset, jealous and many other emotions all at once. Depends on whether you get jealous, angry etc. Its not wrong but i don't agree with it x
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): It's usually stimulating to watch a couple have sex. Despite social conditioning, a LOT of guys really like to watch their partners enjoying another man. They know she is especially beautiful while having sex, but they're usually too personally involved in the process to fully appreciate her. It's only good if she can respond to the other guy, even make love to him. If you are pressuring your G/F into this, it probably won't be an enjoyable experience and will likely damage your relationship. And it's probably best to choose another guy who is not one of your current friends. Casual 3-sum partners can become good friends, but good friends seldom make good casual partners.
If you're new to this, consider joining another couple for same-room sex without changing partners - sometimes called a "soft swing" encounter.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 August 2008):
You might find it fun in your mind but you may find the jealousy destroys you in real life.
Why not get her to tell you about stuff she has done with other guys and ex boyfriends?
That way you can ease into it, and talk about swinging and wife swapping.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, LonelyButNotAlone +, writes (21 August 2008):
 Depends on who you are. It's not uncommon anyways.
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reader, HaileyBurger  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 U must be mad. Do u even love this girl? If u had true feelings for her u would want her for yourself. Yes people have fantasies but some fantasies doesn't need to come true. And believe me once u've done this u'll regret it and won't be able to take it back. Think twice!!
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