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Is it fun to watch a girlfriend have sex with another guy?

Q.   im thinking about asking my girlfriend to have sex with another guy while i watch. is this fun?...

A.   21 August 2008: Oooh personally, I'd be so angry, upset, jealous and many other emotions all at once. Depends on whether you get jealous, angry etc. Its not wrong but i don't agree with it x... (read in full...)

Is the foreskin supposed to pull back during sex?

Q.   when having sex my foreskin gets pulled back as soon as i insert it, is this meant to happen? I find it very when I start rubbing wot can I do about this? Thank you for your help. ...

A.   20 August 2008: Yeah, it happens to everyone, my partner sometimes gets his stuck back but it always gos back again and its never nothing bad its just what happens x... (read in full...)

I have lots of questions about sex and girls.

Q.   [Moderator note: Several questions from the same poster were combined into one post, as he seems to have many questions about sex.] im a guy, sometime i stick a dildo in my butt, does this mean im gay? what is average size for a 16 year old male?......

A.   20 August 2008: well, maybe you are bi-sexual if you like gay porn and girls too, do you find guys sexually attractive? You will most probably be average for your age, and size does not matter its how you use it that does. Try telling the girl you like her and ask ... (read in full...)

How is losing my virginity going to feel? And what steps do I take to move it to full on sex?

Q.   hi there im 16 and im gunna have sex with my boyfriend at the weekend, im a virgin and have only ever kissed a guy before. i dont know what to do nd hes really experienced and knows alot bout sex and positions but i know nothing whatso ever, wh...

A.   20 August 2008: He will probably take the lead if he is experienced. It will get you in the mood more if you do foreplay such as a blow job or a hand job. It may hurt at first when he breaks you in but it doesn't last long, make sure he is gentle and after the ... (read in full...)

She's 13--does the age difference matter?

Q.   ok.. so this girl i like is 13 and im 16 does age really matter?...

A.   14 August 2008: No not at all, i went out with a 16 year old when i was 13 and everything was ok but i was mature for my age. Don't take advantage though as she is vulnerable at 13 and will most probably be crazy in love with you straight away xx... (read in full...)

I like an older guy, how can I make my family and friends see it the way I do?

Q.   I like an older guy and I think age is just a number..but how can I make my family and friends see it the way that I do?? I really need help!...

A.   14 August 2008: Explain to them how you feel about him and how he feels about you and tell them to give it a chance before they disagree with it. My boyfriend is 5 years older then me and i thought my family and friends would never agree with it but i explained to ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?

Q.   ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...

A.   14 August 2008: If you're not 100% sure don't do it. Your virginity is something you can't get back once you lose it. No one can influence your decision it's all up to you. But i lost mine young and i went on to regret it. Don't feel pressured into it for any ... (read in full...)

Has anybody been rejected by their partner when they have dressed in sexy lingerie?

Q.   I want to dress up this evening for my partner in some nicec lingerie, it is something he loves. However, he has had a period of no libido as he was on medication. We were intimate last week for the first time in months and nothing this week. ...

A.   14 August 2008: Dress up and feel confident that your gonna give him a great night, no guy can reject a woman all dressed up and sexy. This will make him forget about all the fall outs and of course get him in the mood! Feel sexy and have a good night xx... (read in full...)

He's leaving, do I text him that I'm still crazy about him and will miss him??? He has a GF.

Q.   I have an urgent request, my friends are sick of me asking and im spinning with this. The guy ive loved for years is leaving to go travelling tomorrow and ive found out he has a girlfriend out in oz who he is meeting up with. We dont talk but ...

A.   14 August 2008: Yeah, tell him exactly how you feel before he goes, because once he's gone you will regret not telling him and he could change his mind. Pour your heart out! :) Good Luck! xx... (read in full...)

Will the pill work in this situation?

Q.   i had unprotected sex with my bf on the last day of periods when i was drunk after half an hour i took an i pill i am scared i will become pregnant as i was drunk. will the pill work ...

A.   14 August 2008: it should work if you took at around the right time you normally take it. If you was drunk it shunt affect it x... (read in full...)

My best friend and her ex broke up two weeks ago. I always liked him. Should I go for it?

Q.   hi i am in love. he is my best friends old boyfriend. they borke up two weeks ago. i always liked him but now hes available i really want him. should i go for it? how can i tell if he is interested? HELP !...

A.   11 August 2008: NO!! wait till she moves on and ask her permission, dont lose a friend over a guy trust me the hate and the arguin will last forever. x... (read in full...)

What are the risk of changing the times you take the contraceptive pill?

Q.   Hey...im kind of confused I've been on hormonal birthcontrol pills 4 a month and some weeks and I have asthma I take advair a medication for my asthma is that going to affect the pills from working or are they gunna still work I need help cause I ...

A.   11 August 2008: No it doesnt matter if you change your time as long as u do it on the new month not half way through a pack x... (read in full...)

I'm paranoid my boyfriend will break his promise - help!

Q.   My boyfriend took cocaine infront of me and i can't get over it. Me and my boyfriend have been together over 8 months now and we have spent almost everyday together, we never really argue and were like best friends. One weekend we was at his...

A.   11 August 2008: thanks for all the adivice, and to clear things up i know he has taken it a while back before we was together its not a regular thing and i know now we have cleared things up and he has chosen me over drugs and i trust this to be true. To the female ... (read in full...)

All the answers for "I don't know what to do when I'm on top".... Well they're not working for me! Help!

Q.   Okay, I know there's loads of questions from girls out there asking "I don't know what to do when I'm on top", and theoretically the answers are pretty good. But they don't seem to be working for me. My boyfriend doesn't really mind, but he still ...

A.   8 August 2008: I used to dread going on top but now i love it. Uv got to feel comfortable and relaxed and just let yourself go don't feel shy or embarassed. Tell him to sit still and go for it, just try different things like moving up and down slowly from top to ... (read in full...)

I'm just not coming on my period! Am I pregnant or not?

Q.   hello i really need help im a 15 year old girl and i had sex on the 10th of july and me and my boyriend never used a condom,i was due on on the 27th of july but still havent come on!i have all the period pains but im just not coming on my period!am ...

A.   4 August 2008: if you had unprotected sex then of course theres a chance you could be. You aren't too young to have sex but just use some protection because you are too young to waste the best part of your life with a baby. If you don't like condoms go on the pill ... (read in full...)

Nice guys always finish last?

Q.   Hi all, This question has been tearing me apart time and time again. Please bear with me, as this will be a long post. Is it true that, no women will ever want to be with a nice guy? I don't consider myself 100% nice, I am not overly r...

A.   4 August 2008: Hi, to get noticed you need to put yourself out there (not as in sleeping around) but have confidence and show women that you are a nice guy. I have been out with alot of jerks in the past and then i met a nice guy that wasn't as good looking as all ... (read in full...)

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