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How do I let him know he can go for it?

Q.   Ok, well, I'm 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 weeks now. We have been friends for a couple years now and are both virgins. Everytime I see him I can't help but smile and I find him to be a complete turn on pretty much all the ...

A.   30 April 2010: I also talked to my husband in what he likes and his reply was that he likes when I take control and show him what I like. Today is not the old age where the guy gets all the fun, Why don't you go and sit on him this time kiss him everywhere that's ... (read in full...)

My husband avoid talking about having a baby

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 3 months already. We went for tests because it's been 2 years since we started dating and we never used a condom and never have I fallen pregnant well test came back that we both have a problem anyway when I ...

A.   30 April 2010: I got our test results back yesterday and we have 2% chance in getting pregnant the normal way, so if it comes to that we really want one invitro is our only option, feels like I am never gonna be a mother!!... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to have sex, but I don't. What can I do?

Q.   well im 16 my boyfriend want to have sex whith me and i keep telling him am not ready and he keeps asking...

A.   29 April 2010: This comes from someone with the experience in that field I was 15 years old at the time and thought I found the love pf my life, he also kept nagging about sex I said to him maybe when I am 16 or older you know what he did; he wrote the number 16 ... (read in full...)

How do I let him know he can go for it?

Q.   Ok, well, I'm 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 weeks now. We have been friends for a couple years now and are both virgins. Everytime I see him I can't help but smile and I find him to be a complete turn on pretty much all the ...

A.   29 April 2010: Why don't you start first meaning when he is kissing you or on top of you start touching him beginning from the top or take his hand and you with it what you want believe me he will het the picture, good luck... (read in full...)

She likes it better without a cover!

Q.   when my girlfriend and i have intercrouse, with no condom she likes it more cuz she can feel the head more and during it, my penis feels like its getting squeezed, like her vagina is getting tighter and such and her eyes are closed and looks like ...

A.   29 April 2010: I also like it without a condom and I can see you that you are well of age so that's no problem for you and yes woman can squeeze their vaginal muscles my husband likes it too. enjoy... (read in full...)

Is it fun to watch a girlfriend have sex with another guy?

Q.   im thinking about asking my girlfriend to have sex with another guy while i watch. is this fun?...

A.   21 August 2008: U must be mad. Do u even love this girl? If u had true feelings for her u would want her for yourself. Yes people have fantasies but some fantasies doesn't need to come true. And believe me once u've done this u'll regret it and won't be able to ... (read in full...)

We've been together 4 months, is it too early to think about babies?

Q.   me and my partner have been together for about 4 months and want a baby is it to soon and am i too young ...

A.   20 August 2008: No i don't think it's to soon, cause i'm in the same position only difference is that we are together for about 6 months now but know him a bit longer. I feel as tough we have been together much longer. I love him dearly and our relationship is ... (read in full...)

I took a home pregnancy test and it showed negative, I was to get my period between 8/4 and 8/10, I only saw a very light flow, could I be pregnant?

Q.   the last time i seen my period was July 12....i have been feelin alot of cramping for the last couple of days and have also been peeing alot, i dunno it might juss be in my head.I was suppose to get my period between the August4th- august 10th and ...

A.   20 August 2008: Ok when you are pregnant that light spotting/flow can be a sign of inplantation bleeding meaning the fertilised egg is being inplanted in u'r uterus thats why the test said negative, it's to early to tell. Wait another week or two and u'r periods ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant, or are my hormones still messed up?

Q.   Hello, i have a problem, i was on the birth control ingection for 5 years non stop. My ginacologist told me i must go of for a while, to make a long story short. My hormones are very unstable and my period was also unregular. Now its totaly gone. ...

A.   20 August 2008: I am trying to get pregnant but fail every time because my hormones are still messed up and i've been of the injection for 2years but had it for 3years. I can bet not to worry at this stage for pregnancy. My advise is go to the gyne and get medicine ... (read in full...)

I really would like to go a little further now, but I don't want to push her and possibly lose her!

Q.   Hey People! Okay well here's the thing. I've been dating my girlfriend now for almost 2 months, we've been good friends now for about a year or more. We kiss every chance we get and she allows me to grab her butt when we're making out but the thing ...

A.   16 August 2008: I agree, first talk with u'r girlfriend about fingering. I was 15 when my ex pushed me in having sex, and i did it. And today i regret ever doing it so young because i wasn't ready and i still blame him even though i am 20 now. I can assure u ... (read in full...)

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