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Is he just using me when he feels the urge?

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Question - (20 February 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2010)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I had great, great sex with a guy I've met online, and we seem to get on well. After sex he doesnt just disappear but hangs around and chats, and we both feel at ease with each other.

But then he disappears! I texted him after 2 days later and said the sex was great, but found his silence strange... what did he want?.... he replied 'I am strange'.

Last time I didnt hear from him for 3 weeks... can this ever turn into anything more than just sex or is he just using me when he feels the urge?

P.S. He's a scorpio and we are very well matched! I really like him.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2010):

This has 'married man' written all over it. Either that or he's just having sex with lots of women.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

Of course he is.You suite him just fine,and who could blame him if you dont say no?

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (21 February 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntSex with no strings attached.He could be a stud or a married guy out for fun.

If he is into you ,he will not disappear for such a long time.

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A male reader, bharat mehta India +, writes (21 February 2010):

bharat mehta agony auntHere you need true vision about sense of life. It is not your partner's nature that make you feel great. But it is nature of sex that make you feel great. You should make difference between love and sex. Sex with love is human, life giving, all good and acceptable. Sex without love is all hurting, destroying, and all bad. Put closer on such relationship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

next time he fancies his no strings sex ask him if you can do it at his place.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

at your age you shouldnt need to ask this question. he`s found what most guys want. dont panic,you will see him again as soon as nothing else is available to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

If a guy likes you, he cannot help himself, he WILL stay in contact with you. You may really like him, but he is just not that into you :( Sorry hun, but it's best you keep on looking. Considering you met him online, he probably is involved with other women as well.

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