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male
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36-40,
*arkybrown
writes:I want to know if any of you consider I’m worth another chance. I was with my ex for 4 and half years we have done a lot of travel together and been thru a lot and the best thing was the trust well I was the most trusting guy u could get no matter who she was with what she was doing it never bothered me at all. Then one night I’m driving home from work see her and her guy work mate walking home drunk so I ask if they want a ride she says no well walk it’s not far so me being trusting an all say sweet, see you at home. Well I wait in driveway to eat some food and they stop just before our house and start pashing for a good while not knowing I’m there I watch in shock don’t know what to do. so I hit her up when she comes in she denied it at first when she was drunk then in the morning she said she couldn’t remember y she done it she was sorry and I accepted it. But as time went by this played in my head was that all she done... then I was on a road trip with some friends and the opportunity to cheat was on the table so I took it but I went the whole way. when I got home I wanted to tell her but my friends said never to so I didn’t then this girl text me a few times and I text her back at this time I didn’t really regret it because I thought she had done the same. in the end she saw the text and I came clean told her everything she was mad at first and I didn’t care because she had broken my trust but then she was such a wreck .It made me realise that the kiss was a stupid mistake.It’s been a month now and I’ve been wanting her back for a few weeks I feel like an ass for what I’ve done she knows that I’m sorry and she says needs space and time. I try my best to not contact her. I saw her few days ago and we were so happy I could see she can put it aside but after that day I said I can’t see u unless u want to forgive me and we can work on getting back together. are I being to straight forward about that and is this too soon to try work it out. Any comments welcome
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2012): I think it depends on what the messages said, and did you break up before that or because of the texts? I think it's a double standard for both of you. You're mad because she did something, then she does it. She does something and then breaks up with you only after you do something. Perfect example of "An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind". Once again, if you said something horribly disrespectful in the messages, I can possibly understand where she's coming from, but in the end she KISSED someone and tried covering it up. I think she's BSing about not remembering, so just think about that.
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