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I'm not planning on giving up on her.So advice please on how to get closer to her, please?

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Question - (29 May 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2015)
A male Argentina age 18-21, *egas10 writes:

Close friends in high school for 3 years

I occassionally asked her to movies via whatsapp, she said yes but with friends and that she may had a family trip. I stupidly sent her that i want es a one on one date. She replied: ooh, i thought it would be more fun to go with friends. We never set anything

I realized it was stupid and pushy what i did. She may have never thought of us being a couple. I mean, she might haven't get my feelings.

Now, im trying to get close to her (walking her home, talking more to her, etc) and eventually asking her for a date.

My friends say that she is really easy cause she had lots of bfs and is very love sensitive

What do you guys think? Any reccomendations? Try to give advice on how to follow beacuse i'm not planning on giving up on her.

She always asks me for school help via whatsapp as im smart, is this a signal? And also ocassionaly talks to me in school but only subject based topics

Tl;dr asked on a crush to the movies. Probably didn't got it, i was pushy and she asked to go with friends. Any advice on how to procced of relationship? What to do regarding text messages, should i try to get her attention via whatsapp or something?

What should i do?

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A male reader, megas10 Argentina +, writes (30 May 2015):

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (30 May 2015):

She may not want a one on one date with you. Your friends may be lying that she's "easy" and has a lot of boyfriends. How would they know more about her than you do? Have you seen all these boyfriends yourself? Stop listening to rumors about her.

I guess she's NOT so easy, huh?

You don't have to give-up, you can keep trying if you like. That doesn't mean she will do what you want her to do.

She may only like you as a friend. You can't force a girl to want to be your girlfriend; if she doesn't like you the same way you like her. I guess you will learn that, and she'll be the one to teach you.

Perhaps her parents will only let her go out with you, as long as there are other people along. Did you think of that?

Have you asked her why she is avoiding a date with only you, or don't you want to hear the answer?

You have to show a girl respect. You can't listen to rumors and think you can do what you want with her, based on what you've heard about her. Sometimes boys spread lies about girls.

Maybe you're rushing things. Take your time and be patient. Eventually she will let you know if she wants a one on one date with you.

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