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writes: I have a co-worker that her and I are attracted to each other. We are both married, she's actually my co-owners sister-in-law. She likes older men, I'm 33, and I like younger women, she's 25. We have messed around a few times, but nothing major, the problem is I send her little signals that I care for her and want her. First of all we both know that we aren't getting divorced for each other and can't fall in love, but I'm head over heels for this girl. When I send her signals here at work she doesn't send anything back. She has told me that she wants me and cares for me, that was about 3 weeks ago, but when I send them and don't get anything back, I think she's loosing interest. I know she's not, should I ignore her and stop doing that to see if she wants the whole cat and mouse game, but I want to make sure that she knows that I'm still interested and will be. I love coming in the office and getting a flirtatious smile from her, but don't even get that from her anymore. Any advise would help and if you need more info ask that too
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 You are both married, that is the end of it.
No matter how exciting it feels to you, be strong and remember your wife at home.
Sounds like this girl is trying harder than you at rembering her marriage vowels.
You may feel head over heels for this girl but try to use this energy and passion at home. I bet your wife needs it more than this girl. This girl already has a husband giving it to her.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 You made your own problems and now yo want suggestions on how to make them worse? Focus on the home fire. You've got your priorities in the wrong order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007): Walk away! You both don't want an affair, both have partner, so what are you playing at. It's not as if you two are kids. Get real! stop playing silly games and put some effort into your marriage.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (17 January 2007):
 Is the question how to continue your affair with this woman?
Try focusing all this attention on your WIFE.
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