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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): im 20 with a 6 incher and i was always worried until i lost my virginity last yr with thiscomplete slag, and she said it was on the bigger side of guys shed had sex with,so dont eventhink about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008): Hey I'm 23 too, with the same size... about average.
So the answer is: No; Worry about other things, like your level of perception/empathy etc..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): hey, reading your responsises had me think diferently. I have a 5 inch shlong but Im very good looking and very big an strong so wemon aproach me always. When girls want to have sex when I first meet them I feel awkward because i feel reserved about that sort of thing like it's meant to be left for someone you truelly love. My small cock has never been an issue in bed. If some ladys read this thier feedback would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): Okay, I am a gay man, 22 years old and my dick is right around 5 inches hard and not really thick, although it does seem to be growing again. I obsess over this all the time thinking my dick is really small because I have seen so many others bigger than mine. Honestly, if I'm the one being penetrated I would prefer the guy be on the smaller end because it's not going to hurt, although a larger guy wont hurt if there is enough trust there, but smaller is better when getting head because it feels good to get deepthroat your partner and not gag them. Honestly, I would love for my penis to be right at 6" with moderate thickness. There is surgery out there to easily achieve another inch, but not much more than that, but girth increases are easily done and you can get a really fat one if you want, so one could always do that for a little self confidence boost.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): listen mate i have just turned 16 and i am very embarresed about my penis and dont go out with with girls who are hot and fancy me becuse i am shy but lately i have learned that my penis is average at, 5.9 inch long and 5 inch girth, so i am only a lil bigger than you, so it dunt matter becuase a girls g spot is only 5.5 inch in so your perfect mate! (y) hope this helped !
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): that is fairly normal size man, well I hope so cos Im the same. I have some real hang ups too, stupid eh? Doesnt matter how many times I read 5.5 is normal it doesnt register. weird cos it holds me back too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): Dude Its Avreage Im 14 and 6.2 long with 5.9 girth Be glad with wat u have if a girl dont like cause dat hommie she not worth bein with man so tell her to fuck off man have be glad its ur 5 incherman have fun with it go fuck a girl man. Its Totaly avereage.
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reader, welldone99  +, writes (3 August 2008):
yea im sixteen going on seventeen and not to make you feel small, but i have an eight incher hard and its probably around 7 inches thick. im not gonna say it sucks, but ive been with my gf for about a year and a half and im still a virgin bc she says it hurts too bad. at the most, ive only gotten in about a half of an inch til she stops me...so i resort to eating her out. thank god she can squirt, that is awesome. i never feel well endowed, but this has made me less shy. im one of the biggest of all my friends and for some reason they get mad at me for it? which i dont understand, bc im the only virgin. dont feel bad about what you have, one of my best friends is the same and he is proud. the best advice my cousin ever gave me was "fuck em hard, they like it." now im passing my wisdom on to you:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008): my dick is 5.5 inches long...just trim some pubes, itll give u self esteem...im 15 and i am about to lose my virginity =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): Wrong, anon female.
It's extremely easy for a small number of the hottest guys to get laid. It's not that easy for the majority of guys at all.
Every man already knows this, even the hot ones. It's absolutely taken it for granted among all men. Getting laid is way harder for us than women ever want to recognize.
Most women are just in utter denial about how hard it really is for any B-list guy. Only the hottest guys really count in their minds when women are trying to imagine the experience of being male.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): this is joke! To all of you guys that are still virgins but want to have sex, it is actually stupidly easy to find someone to sleep with you. just turn on the charm & confidence, if you dont have it, fake it. as for size? i cant really comment as the only person ive slept with was pretty well hung, but im pretty sure it doesnt make a difference unless you're dealing with a bucket. as long as you're good with hands and mouth as well? you'll be fine. lifes too short to worry
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): im 19 and have a 5.5 im a virgin waiting on that one special girl :P but anyways im pretty proud with what i got especially reading all these comments :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008): Porno is a pretty bad way to learn about good sex. Penis size and otherwise.
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reader, Chimo  +, writes (18 June 2008):
ooh what a relefe am 17 and i got a 5.5 incher too i've been having the same thoughts about having sex am a little nervous still but hearing ur guys reponse is making me feel a little better
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): Don't worry fellows, you're all fine! Depending on the ratio of your size to the lady's size, you'll find that some positions work better than others, but you need have no fears about your ability to give satisfaction. In fact, like one of the male anon posters pointed out, it can be unworkably uncomfortable to have a guy who's too big.
It's probably because the porn industry hires guys with big members, just like the fashion industry hires tall lanky girls, that everyone else feels bad. I'm going to point out here that you should NOT look to pornography to give you sex tips-- get a decent sex manual (book) instead. I've had boyfriends who tried to make like a porn star and all I got out of it was a horrible sensation of irritation.
So study up on your techniques and you will be well-loved and appreciated in bed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008): no just do it
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Dude I'm 14 and im 3" soft and 5" hard!!! No i havent had sex but my bro has gotten me a 12 pack of condoms!! Dont worry me and u are average!!! enjoy it while it lasts!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): hey man dont sweat it. im going to tell you something and im being completely honest. my cock is 10 and a quarter inches long, 6 inches girth erect and it sucks. girls never get used to it and it almost always hurts. sex is terrible for me because once i penetrate a women most tell me to stop shortly after...ive never been able to have proper sex really. my current gf and i have spent the first 7 months trying to work around it but its difficult and frustrating. be glad your not in my boat, being well hung isnt anything its cracked up to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Hey I am 16 and I have a 5.5 incher too don't let it get you down!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Hey man mines only 3.5 inches.Just be happy because women "DO NOT CARE"!!!Just go for it.If its too big women are gonna say it hurts and go away. "YOUR FINE"!! Don't brag you'll be fine.Peace out hommie
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): i dont want to sound like an ass but my dick is 7inches erect but only 2 inches gerth and im only 13 is that normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008): This may surprise you, but the average penis is 5.3-5.9 inches in length. So if the average man can satisfy a woman then so can you too.
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reader, babyfederer +, writes (1 June 2008):
hey every one im 23 and til recently i am so self concious about my penis. ive had sex with about 5 girls but i am so caught up in my self conciousness that i dont really enjoy it. But reading your responses to all of you open ppl makes me feel much much better id like to thank all of you for your openness, anyways like many ppl have said and i agree if you have a 5 inch penis trust me its bigger than it seems. from your perspective it doesnt look that big but thats just your own perspective 5 inches is normal and can please a girl. like a lovely young lady said earlier, if you love your penis then your partner will too. be confident about your 5 inches bc its your 5 incher. thats all for now peace
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): Im 16 and have a 5.5 inch and 4 inch girth. I have had 2 long term sexual relationships. Once you get over your nerves and feel confortable then just go for it. I did and made they both cum, so don't worry! Its how you use it.
If you are really worried about not pleasing your women then try some deeper positions like have the girl on top, it works!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): I 17 and have a 7.1 inch dick and wondering if 2 inchs wide is to think? Nothing would suck more then to have a girl say it hurts, id perfer to bring pleasure to her in all ways not just look big.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008): what the hell i have a very little penis i`m 14 and im very shy when a girl ask to see my penis i try my best to hide my penis because i will get joked n i don`t worry im also hard when i look at oither guys it ok we do that m8.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): ok i m 15 n i finnaly realized it aint size that matters or grith it matters about how you to connect. like fuck iam 5" right now 4" flaccid i feel like i shud be 6" or more cause iam 4" soft but yeh... 5" is hella good dont be shy man just get in there n if she complains just walk away:P
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): dude i have 5.5 inch penis too
its all about how thick it is
dont be shy
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): 5 inches and proud
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): no, don't be, that's a normal size. I'm a virgin too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): well, basically it dont matter mines 7.5 and ive had girls complain cause it hurts as many say comunication is the key just feel proud about it and it will be all good
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008): Reading this stuff made me feel a lot better. I feel like the things posted here are more like "real world". Not the world that is made up by the media.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): yodont be worried about your size im 18 and my penis is 3/4 and i have had plenty girls in bed...not to be proud of but...just use ur stick and show em whats up
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): dude I have around a 5 inch penis and I gave a girl 12 orgasms in one session.
trust me.. you're great.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): You need to get over it! 5 and a half is a normal penis size. Most women don't care about penis size and they aren't going to turned down a 5 incher. Unless, is a freaky size queen like Lil' Kim. I'm not saying you should be a man-whore but you should go out and have sex! As long as you are safe, though!
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reader, ariel  + ♥, writes (28 March 2008):
 Ha!my computer is acting weird,sorry for the duplicate
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reader, ariel + ♥, writes (28 March 2008):
Don’t be shy, you have an average size penis. What you need to do is love your penis, it will bring you great pleasure and will pleasure someone special to you. It’s all about technique. And the g-spot is only located about an inch or so inside the vaginal opening on the upper vaginal wall — toward the bellybutton, so you don’t need a godzilla to please. Also with a bit of communication on what your partner likes you can move mountains. So my advice is get to know and love your penis because if you don’t love it, how do you expect someone else to.
Don’t be shy, you have an average size penis. What you need to do is love your penis, it will bring you great pleasure and will pleasure someone special to you. It’s all about technique. And the g-spot is only located about an inch or so inside the vaginal opening on the upper vaginal wall — toward the bellybutton, so you don’t need a godzilla to please. Also with a bit of communication on what your partner likes you can move mountains. So my advice is get to know and love your penis because if you don’t love it, how do you expect someone else to.
Don’t be shy, you have an average size penis. What you need to do is love your penis, it will bring you great pleasure and will pleasure someone special to you. It’s all about technique. And the g-spot is only located about an inch or so inside the vaginal opening on the upper vaginal wall — toward the belly button, so you don’t need a godzilla to please. Also with a bit of communication on what your partner likes you can move mountains. So my advice is get to know and love your penis because if you don’t love it, how do you expect someone else to. Foreplay is the key,you don't even need a penis to make a women orgasam.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): women are only six inches deep inside anything bigger would just strecth out a women for a normal guy - no horse cocks for me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): If you were much bigger I wouldnt even touch you because of that...... normal size is better. I dated a guy that was larger than normal, I didnt want anything to do with it. But he seemed like a nice guy and almost begged me. He got only a few inches in and I had enough - I didnt love him so why even go there - just for sex? Not with someone hung like him, I didnt want to ruin it when I did meet someone I really loved! Or have to tell a future boyfriend or husband that I had sex with a man who had a much larger penis - I know how guys have a thing with penis size! Its about love not how big your penis is
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): ther is very few women that like bigger - and their size queens - your just right
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): if your with a girl and she says your to small then she dosnt care about you only your dick size - get rid of her
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): I've been married for 15yrs and I'm very much in love. To spice up our sex life we've had some thresomes it started out with just other women. My husband is around 5"-5.5" and have always been completly satisified and all the guys i had been with before him were around the same. So I couldn't help from wondering what it might be like to have something a little bigger. So after talking and waiting a long time for the right other guy to help us out, we had a threesome with a guy around 8" or just a little smaller. My husband was very indimidated by him, he liked to show it off I felt bad about it right away! But he did it for me - I feel bad now I should have never done it. Anyway it was terrible he didn't know how to please a woman he just wanted to use his bigger dick for his own self-satisfaction and almost seemed as if he tried to make my poor husband feel bad about his size. I actually made him stop and finish by beating off! And told the guy he was terrible and my husband was much better - it put a nice grin on my hubby's face. Bigger is not better at all unless your a big girl thats all stretched out and can take it - yuck!! YOUR JUST FINE AND MOST ALL GIRLS WILL SAY PERFECT SIZE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): dont listen to the hype of big ones most are lying i have a 5" one and always thought like you did till i met the right gal that im going to marry tells me all the time im perfect! i still sometimes wish it was bigger but then i probably wont be with the great gal im with - she likes normal size! if your with a gal and she says she its not big enuf then shes the one with problems! PS Ive known guys who brag about having big ones then they break-up with their girl and then i find out they are smaller than me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): Buddy your lucky mine is 3" hard I'd love to be 5.5"
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): Hey 5.5 is just nice I've had boyfriends much smaller and they still could work it just fine. Also had boyfriends bigger and it wasnt all that good! I'd rather have a great guy with normal size not a jerk that thinks hes great cuz hes bigger! Beside more than a mouthfull is a waste lol that goes for guys penis as well as girls boobs!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008): dude there is really nothing wrong with your size. 5-7 inches is average and your just about cut in the middle. believe me when i say that i felt the same. i lost my V card when i was just about to turn 20 because i was insecure. i just found the right girl and i have to say that my sex life is amazing. But she said the size from her x to mine was a leap, her x was about 3 inches and im about 6.5 maybe a little more. But i can laugh at him because he is a dirt, he cheats on every girl he ends up with. Any who back to the subject. Your average and you really shouldnt feel bad about yourself, be proud of your size, you should be.take care dude and i hope you meet the right girl :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): My penis 5.5 inches i recently turned 16 i feel my when i look at my penis size it looks big but the girth is my downfall the girth is 2 inches
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): I envy you. I'm 19 going on 20 and I'm only 3.75 inches, 4 on a good day. If mine was as big as yours I would be so much happier.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Yo man dont feel bad
although im 14 with a 6 inch i still think all the time that i have a small erection even though girls that ive been with have said its not small
all you have to do is keep your head high and realize that 5.5 isnt smal its average and be proud of what you have
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008): I'm 15 and i have a 5" inch dick, and still a V, i dont feel too bad about being a virgin at my age, but im not definately happy with my size, i feel the same way bud, so letas hope a miracle happens and we can find the right one
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): Size doesnt matter. SEx is about love not pleasure. When you fall in love, you care about everything of that person. Sex is just part of it. If you happen to find a woman who is looking for a large cock size to do herself with, forget her. She doesnt care about ur individuality but you cock size.
My point here is, sex is about how you can express your love to your partner. I am a virgin 16 years old but face it, thats what good sex is. Just don't let that insecurity beat you. Girls are saying they are too fat when for real, they are actually beautiful.
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