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I'm a 23 year old virgin with a 5.5 inch penis. I feel shy about having sex...help!

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Question - (6 January 2006) 146 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2010)
A male , anonymous writes:

i am 23 old virgin and i have 5.5 inch penis .should i feel shy from having sex ? i feel shy :(

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010):

I'M 16 with a 6'1/2 inch penis with 5 inch girth... not so bad... jus right size trust me!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010):

Man Im 14 and have a 3 inch and my gf loves it. She siads it's good cause it dosent hurt. Also it's great for giving anal

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010):

Honestly, size isn't a factor when it comes down to sex, as long as you get to know her body and what she likes then you will be amazing in bed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010):

im 15 years old and i have a 5.5 inch penis and my girl says its niether too big or too small

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2010):

hey man i am 23 and mine is the same size as yours and ive been maried for 5 year and my wife said she has had only one biger than mine so im hear to tell u that 5.5 is just fine by the way i have 4 kids so i guess she really does like it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010):

If she says it is too small, insist she has a 'big vagina'.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2010):

its not always about the size. My husband has a 5inch but we can still have fun, its not about size its about passion. If your passiont about having sex to your girlfriend do it, passion is better then size,

now go have some passiont sex

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010):

Hey im a women and ive had sex 3 times. Ive had someone with a 10 inch and someone with a 5inch. Im not gonna lie 5 inch satisfyed me more. Dont ask why.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2010):

I had a small penis for my first time, it was great as it didnt hurt and now I can sleep with bigger guys

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010):

Absolutely not be as open about it as you possibly can ..

5.5 is perfect ...................

I am you're size and all my girls love my way..........

Simple way to explain (pocket knifes as as deadly as swords).........

Just be your self that's what matters..........

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010):

I'm 12 years old with a 5inch dick i'm not sure if i measured at the right time cuz it was still growing. anyway is'nt there pills for that

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2010):

yeah I feel the same way as you dude. I have around the same size, but I'm 18. It sucks but I try not to worry about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2010):

I have a 6 inch dick, and after reading this whole page it has gave me confidence i am not scared to have sex thanks to this tips. And also im a virgin. And guy's theres Extenze for larger penis ;).. mite help out. LOL

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010):

i'm asian and at the peak of my erectness i'm 6.5 but normall i'm around 6". As long as you use it right, don't worry.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2010):

Hey man, feel proud of your schlong at least you still have one! 4-5 years ago i fell off a bike and the handlebars puncured my penis, complete freak accident and now I will never feel the pleasures of sex or ejaculation (Happened when i was 13 or so and hadn't masterbated yet) Now whos the one looking for advice...

Try using a catheter to pee and see how manly that feels.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

in one of the biggest trials to measure penis it was found that the average penis size for asains was 5.1 inches while black/white people averaged 5.9". Therefore your penis is perfectly fine. Furthermore on another trial it was found that men, on average, claimed to have a dick 2 inches bigger than it's actual size. The most important thing for you to know that 88% of woman are happy with a guys penis smaller than 6 inches and the pleasure is only felt strongly in the first 4 inches of a womans vagina.

And remember! most comments that say 5.5 inches is puney are either other men...or americans :D

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):

I don't think 5.5 is bad but I disagree with the other woman. Big penis may be masculine but it also feels wonderful. It's about how you work it. I can't speak for every woman but find the spot and work it. And wait for the right girl.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010):

Don't worry. Have confidence in yourselves. I'm 43 years old. Have 2 children, same size cock as you, and several female lovers. Use your body, tounge and fingers. Make her come whitout even penetrading her, and you have her in your hand. Than you can f*** her brain out :-))

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010):

I;m a female and trust me, if you have the mind that goes with a big dick, physical size does not matter. Yes, women love big dicks, we really respect them. However, not because of the way it feels, but because it is very masculine. But what we like even more than big dicks, are big balls, metaphorically. Like, if I had some small dicked guy not be apologetic for his little dick, and just work me, I would respect him even more than a big dicked, cause that takes some ball.

So, basically, if you have the balls to be unapologetic for your size, than you have the biggest ball. And that is more hot than anything else to a woman. Period.

So, you have to ask yourself :how big are your balls?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010):

Hi

im 25 and i have had LOADS of women, they all love it no matter wat size u are!! I have a smaller dick than u (5) and i have had sex with LOADS of women. Around about 50 women and i only had 1 or 2 who complained!! some of them even shouted SHUVE THAT BIG THING IN ME!!! My point is dont be shy, i have to admit i was nervous at first cos i thought my penis was to small but after that first time i realised it does not matter about size only how you use it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010):

I am a 25 year old woman. DON"T WORRY ABOUT SIZE! It has nothing to do with a woman's amount of pleasure. To the gentleman who felt uncomfortable when a woman wants to have sex relatively quickly. Tell her you want to know her, you want to get to know how she thinks before you take her to bed, in order to give her the experience she deserves. Tell her that once you take a woman to bed, you're so good they can't think about anything else and you want to know her inside and out. Woman love confidence, it's a huge turn on. Say it with the confidence of someone who knows they're going to get what they want. Inevitably you'll lose a few because all they're looking for is sex only, but you don't want them anyway if you're looking for a relationship. When you are ready to take her to bed, make a plan and surprise her, make it a really romantic and relaxing atmosphere and things will just naturally progress. Don't rush, foreplay can make an orgasm better than any big penis. Remember, the things that turn women on are different than for men. Going out of your way to do something nice and helpful can be a giant turn on. A surprise evening planned out by your partner will make a woman want to jump you before you can even get home, and the orgasm won't take long if they're already that turned on. Chocolates flowers and a song you can dance to in a quiet corner will make her orgasm before you get in bed...forget size, it means nothing. The importance of size is a mythical creature created by insecure males (big penises can actually hurt more than feel good)...and insecurity and lack of confidence is a huge turn off, a small penis isn't a big deal(the G spot is only a few inches in, and the labia and clitoris is a part of the entire vagina, not just that one hole). Hope that helps all you young men out there!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010):

dude dont trip i got about the same maybe a little smaller its all good! just find the right girl! like you dont want to get a big girl ya know/ I GOT A SMALL PETIT GIRL AND SHE LOVES IT! THE PENIS SHOULD MATCH THE VIGINA

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010):

I'm like 5 inches or something like that,but I've never had problems with it.If you've ever noticed,women can get satisfied by a finger(and a finger is like 2-3 inches max!) then your 3,4,5,6-inch dick can't fail in size.If she isn't satisfied then the problem was how u used it.If you want a few hints on how to use it:

1.Do it fast,and for a longer while.

2.Women don't like premature ejaculation,but its difficult for guys to stop it so jerk off before sex helps most of the times.

3.If she lays on her stomach she'll DEFINITELY feel it.

4.Have confidence!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010):

Don't worry about it buddy, at the end of the day the right girl wont judge you by how hung you are, and if they do then that says alot about that girl as a person.

I personally am just over 6 inch's erect and im very proud of it, it's always served me well in the past. Just be confident in yourself my friend and dont let silly things like this get you down.

Take it easy :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2010):

my bf is 23 almost 24 he's got a 5.5inch when erect, and its amazing, its better than my ex. my ex was 28, erect he was only 4inches....can you say bad? so buddy being 5.5inches is good. keep your chin up

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010):

THIS IS A 4 YEAR OLD QUESTION.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010):

broody its all good man i was in the same boat but i decided to man up and go for it i have a 5inch penis same in girth and my girlfriend loves having sex i make her orgasam everytime just learn to use what you got thats what i did goodluck my dude

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2010):

hey man im 5.5 inches and the same girth. i never let it bother me cos i was always told that confidence was the most important thing with women(that and good oral skills ). the point is that if you feel bad about it so will the girl but if you feel good and confident with it the girl will fell great too. im 23 and loving sex!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010):

hey all those borthers out there that worry about there size dont worry about that. Grils dont really care it all in how you use that soldier so dont worry. I was shy two but i got over it i mean my size is only six inches and im 22 but like i said it how you use it so dont worry about those guys that brag about there size cause half of them dont know how to use it plus half of it doesent even go in so just do your thing let go and have some fun

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2010):

You'll have to let go of your insecurities sooner or later if you want to have a normal life. Life's way too short to worry about things you can't control.

You're average, and with 5.5" you can satisfy most women. Sure, there will be a few who swear by big d*icks, but it's the exact same situation as guys who only date women with large breasts. At the end of the day, to most people it doesn't matter.

I'm 5.75" in length and 6" in girth, and not once have I heard a woman complain about my size. On the other hand, I I'm going to let you in a little secret about women: learn how to perform cunnilingus on your girl, learn it well, master it. This, my friend, will be your advantage over most men. If you can do this well, you'll literally have your girl(s) calling you often wanting to get with you. I don't like to brag, but for the sake of the argument I'll admit that I've had several girls openly ask me to go down on their girlfriends who were single at the time, simply because they now that any guy who can do that well, is a rarity. Believe me, once you get good using your tongue and hands, your penis is secondary. ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

Its the same here, and i really am confused cos i never know if im big enough, im 15 and i havnt got off with a girl, i do plan on trying sumtin on this weekend tho haha

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010):

if your girlfriend loved you she wouldnt care...its how you use it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2010):

ha ~ it's ok :) the keypoint is ur skill, not your size :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010):

I am 6.5 long and 6 inches around. It really doesn't matter how big your dick is, every guy wants a bigger one, it's just a fact of life. I would say it's about stamina and knowing what you're doing. Mine looks me in the eye so it seems really small but i recently learned im a tiny bit over average. Don't stress over it, sex is overrated.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

Dont feel shy about anything..god gave it to u and its not going to change so be proud of wat u got...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

i'm almost 17 and i have a 9 inch long with 6 inch girth and having a big one isn't really that good. My girlfriend of 9 months still says it hurts to put in and we have had sex a good 60 times. You just need to learn how to use it good size isn't everything but it help.

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A male reader, The Asian dude United States +, writes (31 December 2009):

If people say this is normal than why do Asian guys always gets laughed at. I'm Asian and I have a 6 inch in about 4.5 to 5 inch girth. I mean I'm glad I'm not the only one. I mean I satisfy my girl every time and she cums all the time but like everyone I feel small as well. I'm Asian and I know I'm not huge but all the teasing of Asian dicks makes me self conscious even tho my girl is satisfied.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009):

idk i wouldn't ashamed if i were but im just putting this out there im 14 yeaars old and i just measured mine with a inch ruler and i have about "6"inches

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (16 December 2009):

Not My Name agony auntGirly bits are only so long ya know, so too long is not only a waste, your poor girl will have to also miss out on the body /ball slapping (lol) contact. Now that would really suck imo.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):

im 16 soon and mine is 6.1 inches errect is this big small or average?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2009):

Thank god im 14 and about to turn 15 i thought i was the only one with a small penis mine measures 5" flat when erect i feel much better about it now though as i have read the other post ecspeacially the ones by women who have said sizes really doesnt matter thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009):

hi im a 21 yr old with a 7 inch long and 5 nd a bit girth penis its average size but im good wi it i wouldn worry mate cause i was lik u til i met a lovely woman who was kind an very open and i lost my virginity to her im still wi her to this day and we just told each other what we liked in bed and we built an exciting sex life my advice is be confidant in what u hav and ul find de woman 4 u

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009):

Geez im relieved that im not the only one that thought i was small cause of my 5.5 i just started goin out on dates with many diff chicks and i was a little self con. with it cause i thought that "subject" would come up

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009):

Man i feel the same way.

Im about to turn 16 in a few months and mines like 5.5"

Im always wondering about it. These comments help

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009):

Hi no it's a very good size. Some people have like, four inches an it works good. You are pretty dam good. somebodys gonna love it.

MODERATOR'S NOTE:

Please do not write in all caps.

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A male reader, meganutts United States +, writes (17 August 2009):

meganutts agony auntI really can't believe how many responses this one has gotten. Come on fellahs, have some pride in what you do have. Look I'm not here to brag or anything, but I have a considerably large(length and girth) dick, last time I measured it was 9, but I'm 24 and my growing days are over down there, its different for all men. The point is, bigger dick don't nab the women, it does some times but not always. Work with what you. Plus you all are still growing, so relax.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2009):

Yeah I'm about 5-5.25 inches erect and 3.5-4 normally without about 3-4 inches in girth and i was shy about this weekend seeing my girlfriend as things might get a little hot.... anyways these posts made me feel a lot better and i hope they made you feel better to!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

I'm 19 and measure in at around 5.5" as well and here I was thinking that hardly anyone else would be? I basically grew to around 4.5" when I was 13 then it's been slow progress ever since :\.

I've had several sexual partners and am yet to encounter someone to even make a bad remark. Over 3 of my previous partners have said I was the best sex they've had? :S

I'm currently sleeping with one of my ex. girlfriends and sometimes she struggles to even get me inside her.. and when she does she usually ends up having more orgasms than I do.

I'd say it comes down to stamina. Position does not mean much, some positions are more difficult since it is easier to slip out but the key is to grope their theigh and hold them closer so you can prevent that happening.

Oh and it is true that most women don't care.. the G spot is in different places on each female but really it should be only an index fingers length into the vagina.. that's maybe 2.5" at max.

TBH I'd be more worried about impotence and premature ejactulation than size.. I've heard plenty of stories of guys with massive wangs who just blow within the first 5 seconds. Master the all night root and you'll be set! Also learn to love the taste of tang ;)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009):

Damn I guess I am average. Most have a 5.5 inch like me. makes me feel alot better. Thank you all. I'm 19 and a virgin too. Don't feel bad. I'm about to turn twenty.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

i know how you feel, i'm 14 and mines only 5 inches erect but i'm sorta proud.

just out of interest, what age does it stop growing? is it the same age you whole body stops growing or is it at a different time?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2009):

On the same boat mate. I'm 18 and my donga is just over 5.5 inches erect, almost 4 inches girth. I use to feel low about mine but after reading all these posts I feel better, you should too. We're both "average" not that it should matter but it definitely gives us some confidence knowing that we're not considered as "small".

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009):

I've read alot of these posts saying 'it's not how big but how you use it' - TRUE. Its just not as much fun with a big cock - you can't go for it hard and fast or it starts to hit your cervix and get really painful. The most important part is the moment of penetration - beyond that its all much of a muchness unless you're one of the very few women who actually know where the hell/if they have a g spot.

DONT get hung up on women cumming. Dont see it as a 'proof of worth' or as the only thing that'll convince you that your cock is ok - because most women need clitoral stimulation to cum and this just doesn't get given in abundance with normal sex - the angles just aren't right.

Big or small cock: forget the mythical G spot, i'm an adult woman and i have intimate chats with other women all the time and i've only ever met one who knew where her G spot was - and i've only met a handful that could orgasm all the time through sex alone.

Tip: want to please your woman? Find a position where she can masturbate (clitoral) or you finger her at the same time as having sex - a bit of this every now and then will make her more likely to enjoy the sex - forget cock size!

And there are alot of women that get so hung up about their bodies they wont orgasm even with this. Its not your cock. It never will be. Unless its dirty...or huge. Women in pain don't have fun. Spend a bit of time making her feel like a sex kitten goddess and tell her you love her love handles and she'll be relaxed with you and have great sex.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009):

Nah mate, its cool. Mines pretty small. Me and my girlfriend have spoken about it and she's told me that several of her boyfriends before me had much bigger dicks.

But its what you do with it that matters. After a while of having sex you will build up confidence. What would obviously be good is if you lost your virginity to some one who really cared about you and you could either learn together what works and what doesn't, or she can show you.

Sure, some girls might like big dicks, just as some guys like huge tits. It's quality not quantity though mate.

Don't make it an issue, cos it aint.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2009):

dude im a male 15 ,16 tomorow wooo i ahve always worried about my dick being small when i started secondary school in years 7-9 my dick was around 2 inches flaccid and now im year 11 it is 3 inches flaccid and 5 inches erect and girls really dont care how big it is , most of the girls that do are obviouslyt slags and have buckets just wait till the time is right and never be shy about your penis because it is your manhood and you shoudl always be proud of it .

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A male reader, cranford United States +, writes (13 March 2009):

Im 15 and im 3 inches soft and 4.5-5 hard with 2 inch girth is that normal for my age?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008):

im 20 with a 6 incher and i was always worried until i lost my virginity last yr with thiscomplete slag, and she said it was on the bigger side of guys shed had sex with,so dont eventhink about it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2008):

Hey I'm 23 too, with the same size... about average.

So the answer is: No; Worry about other things, like your level of perception/empathy etc..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008):

hey, reading your responsises had me think diferently. I have a 5 inch shlong but Im very good looking and very big an strong so wemon aproach me always. When girls want to have sex when I first meet them I feel awkward because i feel reserved about that sort of thing like it's meant to be left for someone you truelly love. My small cock has never been an issue in bed. If some ladys read this thier feedback would be appreciated.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

Okay, I am a gay man, 22 years old and my dick is right around 5 inches hard and not really thick, although it does seem to be growing again. I obsess over this all the time thinking my dick is really small because I have seen so many others bigger than mine. Honestly, if I'm the one being penetrated I would prefer the guy be on the smaller end because it's not going to hurt, although a larger guy wont hurt if there is enough trust there, but smaller is better when getting head because it feels good to get deepthroat your partner and not gag them. Honestly, I would love for my penis to be right at 6" with moderate thickness. There is surgery out there to easily achieve another inch, but not much more than that, but girth increases are easily done and you can get a really fat one if you want, so one could always do that for a little self confidence boost.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008):

listen mate i have just turned 16 and i am very embarresed about my penis and dont go out with with girls who are hot and fancy me becuse i am shy but lately i have learned that my penis is average at, 5.9 inch long and 5 inch girth, so i am only a lil bigger than you, so it dunt matter becuase a girls g spot is only 5.5 inch in so your perfect mate! (y) hope this helped !

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008):

that is fairly normal size man, well I hope so cos Im the same. I have some real hang ups too, stupid eh? Doesnt matter how many times I read 5.5 is normal it doesnt register. weird cos it holds me back too.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008):

Dude Its Avreage Im 14 and 6.2 long with 5.9 girth Be glad with wat u have if a girl dont like cause dat hommie she not worth bein with man so tell her to fuck off man have be glad its ur 5 incherman have fun with it go fuck a girl man. Its Totaly avereage.

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A male reader, welldone99 United States +, writes (3 August 2008):

yea im sixteen going on seventeen and not to make you feel small, but i have an eight incher hard and its probably around 7 inches thick. im not gonna say it sucks, but ive been with my gf for about a year and a half and im still a virgin bc she says it hurts too bad. at the most, ive only gotten in about a half of an inch til she stops me...so i resort to eating her out. thank god she can squirt, that is awesome. i never feel well endowed, but this has made me less shy. im one of the biggest of all my friends and for some reason they get mad at me for it? which i dont understand, bc im the only virgin. dont feel bad about what you have, one of my best friends is the same and he is proud. the best advice my cousin ever gave me was "fuck em hard, they like it." now im passing my wisdom on to you:)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008):

my dick is 5.5 inches long...just trim some pubes, itll give u self esteem...im 15 and i am about to lose my virginity =D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008):

Wrong, anon female.

It's extremely easy for a small number of the hottest guys to get laid. It's not that easy for the majority of guys at all.

Every man already knows this, even the hot ones. It's absolutely taken it for granted among all men. Getting laid is way harder for us than women ever want to recognize.

Most women are just in utter denial about how hard it really is for any B-list guy. Only the hottest guys really count in their minds when women are trying to imagine the experience of being male.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008):

this is joke! To all of you guys that are still virgins but want to have sex, it is actually stupidly easy to find someone to sleep with you. just turn on the charm & confidence, if you dont have it, fake it. as for size? i cant really comment as the only person ive slept with was pretty well hung, but im pretty sure it doesnt make a difference unless you're dealing with a bucket. as long as you're good with hands and mouth as well? you'll be fine. lifes too short to worry

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

im 19 and have a 5.5 im a virgin waiting on that one special girl :P but anyways im pretty proud with what i got especially reading all these comments :D

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2008):

Porno is a pretty bad way to learn about good sex. Penis size and otherwise.

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A male reader, Chimo Canada +, writes (18 June 2008):

ooh what a relefe am 17 and i got a 5.5 incher too i've been having the same thoughts about having sex am a little nervous still but hearing ur guys reponse is making me feel a little better

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

Don't worry fellows, you're all fine! Depending on the ratio of your size to the lady's size, you'll find that some positions work better than others, but you need have no fears about your ability to give satisfaction. In fact, like one of the male anon posters pointed out, it can be unworkably uncomfortable to have a guy who's too big.

It's probably because the porn industry hires guys with big members, just like the fashion industry hires tall lanky girls, that everyone else feels bad. I'm going to point out here that you should NOT look to pornography to give you sex tips-- get a decent sex manual (book) instead. I've had boyfriends who tried to make like a porn star and all I got out of it was a horrible sensation of irritation.

So study up on your techniques and you will be well-loved and appreciated in bed.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

no just do it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

Dude I'm 14 and im 3" soft and 5" hard!!! No i havent had sex but my bro has gotten me a 12 pack of condoms!! Dont worry me and u are average!!! enjoy it while it lasts!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008):

hey man dont sweat it. im going to tell you something and im being completely honest. my cock is 10 and a quarter inches long, 6 inches girth erect and it sucks. girls never get used to it and it almost always hurts. sex is terrible for me because once i penetrate a women most tell me to stop shortly after...ive never been able to have proper sex really. my current gf and i have spent the first 7 months trying to work around it but its difficult and frustrating. be glad your not in my boat, being well hung isnt anything its cracked up to be.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008):

Hey I am 16 and I have a 5.5 incher too don't let it get you down!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008):

Hey man mines only 3.5 inches.Just be happy because women "DO NOT CARE"!!!Just go for it.If its too big women are gonna say it hurts and go away. "YOUR FINE"!! Don't brag you'll be fine.Peace out hommie

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008):

i dont want to sound like an ass but my dick is 7inches erect but only 2 inches gerth and im only 13 is that normal

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

This may surprise you, but the average penis is 5.3-5.9 inches in length. So if the average man can satisfy a woman then so can you too.

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A male reader, babyfederer United States +, writes (1 June 2008):

hey every one im 23 and til recently i am so self concious about my penis. ive had sex with about 5 girls but i am so caught up in my self conciousness that i dont really enjoy it. But reading your responses to all of you open ppl makes me feel much much better id like to thank all of you for your openness, anyways like many ppl have said and i agree if you have a 5 inch penis trust me its bigger than it seems. from your perspective it doesnt look that big but thats just your own perspective 5 inches is normal and can please a girl. like a lovely young lady said earlier, if you love your penis then your partner will too. be confident about your 5 inches bc its your 5 incher. thats all for now peace

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

Im 16 and have a 5.5 inch and 4 inch girth. I have had 2 long term sexual relationships. Once you get over your nerves and feel confortable then just go for it. I did and made they both cum, so don't worry! Its how you use it.

If you are really worried about not pleasing your women then try some deeper positions like have the girl on top, it works!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008):

I 17 and have a 7.1 inch dick and wondering if 2 inchs wide is to think? Nothing would suck more then to have a girl say it hurts, id perfer to bring pleasure to her in all ways not just look big.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

what the hell i have a very little penis i`m 14 and im very shy when a girl ask to see my penis i try my best to hide my penis because i will get joked n i don`t worry im also hard when i look at oither guys it ok we do that m8.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008):

ok i m 15 n i finnaly realized it aint size that matters or grith it matters about how you to connect. like fuck iam 5" right now 4" flaccid i feel like i shud be 6" or more cause iam 4" soft but yeh...

5" is hella good dont be shy man just get in there n if she complains just walk away:P

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

dude i have 5.5 inch penis too

its all about how thick it is

dont be shy

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008):

5 inches and proud

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

no, don't be, that's a normal size. I'm a virgin too.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

well, basically it dont matter mines 7.5 and ive had girls complain cause it hurts as many say comunication is the key just feel proud about it and it will be all good

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2008):

Reading this stuff made me feel a lot better. I feel like the things posted here are more like "real world". Not the world that is made up by the media.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008):

yo

dont be worried about your size im 18 and my penis is 3/4 and i have had plenty girls in bed...not to be proud of but...just use ur stick and show em whats up

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008):

dude I have around a 5 inch penis and I gave a girl 12 orgasms in one session.

trust me.. you're great.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

You need to get over it! 5 and a half is a normal penis size. Most women don't care about penis size and they aren't going to turned down a 5 incher. Unless, is a freaky size queen like Lil' Kim. I'm not saying you should be a man-whore but you should go out and have sex! As long as you are safe, though!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008):

women are only six inches deep inside anything bigger would just strecth out a women for a normal guy - no horse cocks for me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008):

If you were much bigger I wouldnt even touch you because of that...... normal size is better. I dated a guy that was larger than normal, I didnt want anything to do with it. But he seemed like a nice guy and almost begged me. He got only a few inches in and I had enough - I didnt love him so why even go there - just for sex? Not with someone hung like him, I didnt want to ruin it when I did meet someone I really loved! Or have to tell a future boyfriend or husband that I had sex with a man who had a much larger penis - I know how guys have a thing with penis size! Its about love not how big your penis is

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008):

ther is very few women that like bigger - and their size queens - your just right

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008):

if your with a girl and she says your to small then she dosnt care about you only your dick size - get rid of her

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008):

I've been married for 15yrs and I'm very much in love. To spice up our sex life we've had some thresomes it started out with just other women. My husband is around 5"-5.5" and have always been completly satisified and all the guys i had been with before him were around the same. So I couldn't help from wondering what it might be like to have something a little bigger. So after talking and waiting a long time for the right other guy to help us out, we had a threesome with a guy around 8" or just a little smaller. My husband was very indimidated by him, he liked to show it off I felt bad about it right away! But he did it for me - I feel bad now I should have never done it. Anyway it was terrible he didn't know how to please a woman he just wanted to use his bigger dick for his own self-satisfaction and almost seemed as if he tried to make my poor husband feel bad about his size. I actually made him stop and finish by beating off! And told the guy he was terrible and my husband was much better - it put a nice grin on my hubby's face. Bigger is not better at all unless your a big girl thats all stretched out and can take it - yuck!! YOUR JUST FINE AND MOST ALL GIRLS WILL SAY PERFECT SIZE!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

dont listen to the hype of big ones most are lying i have a 5" one and always thought like you did till i met the right gal that im going to marry tells me all the time im perfect! i still sometimes wish it was bigger but then i probably wont be with the great gal im with - she likes normal size! if your with a gal and she says she its not big enuf then shes the one with problems! PS Ive known guys who brag about having big ones then they break-up with their girl and then i find out they are smaller than me!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

Buddy your lucky mine is 3" hard I'd love to be 5.5"

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008):

Hey 5.5 is just nice I've had boyfriends much smaller and they still could work it just fine. Also had boyfriends bigger and it wasnt all that good! I'd rather have a great guy with normal size not a jerk that thinks hes great cuz hes bigger! Beside more than a mouthfull is a waste lol that goes for guys penis as well as girls boobs!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2008):

dude there is really nothing wrong with your size. 5-7 inches is average and your just about cut in the middle. believe me when i say that i felt the same. i lost my V card when i was just about to turn 20 because i was insecure. i just found the right girl and i have to say that my sex life is amazing. But she said the size from her x to mine was a leap, her x was about 3 inches and im about 6.5 maybe a little more. But i can laugh at him because he is a dirt, he cheats on every girl he ends up with. Any who back to the subject. Your average and you really shouldnt feel bad about yourself, be proud of your size, you should be.

take care dude and i hope you meet the right girl :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008):

My penis 5.5 inches i recently turned 16 i feel my when i look at my penis size it looks big but the girth is my downfall the girth is 2 inches

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008):

I envy you. I'm 19 going on 20 and I'm only 3.75 inches, 4 on a good day. If mine was as big as yours I would be so much happier.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008):

Yo man dont feel bad

although im 14 with a 6 inch i still think all the time that i have a small erection even though girls that ive been with have said its not small

all you have to do is keep your head high and realize that 5.5 isnt smal its average and be proud of what you have

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2008):

I'm 15 and i have a 5" inch dick, and still a V, i dont feel too bad about being a virgin at my age, but im not definately happy with my size, i feel the same way bud, so letas hope a miracle happens and we can find the right one

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008):

Size doesnt matter. SEx is about love not pleasure. When you fall in love, you care about everything of that person. Sex is just part of it. If you happen to find a woman who is looking for a large cock size to do herself with, forget her. She doesnt care about ur individuality but you cock size.

My point here is, sex is about how you can express your love to your partner. I am a virgin 16 years old but face it, thats what good sex is. Just don't let that insecurity beat you. Girls are saying they are too fat when for real, they are actually beautiful.

Dude size will never matter if you are able to show how much you lvoe your partner

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008):

hey man my cock is 5 inches and no girl complains about it go out there and get some

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

sex is not about size so no worry i dumped a guy cuz his dick was too big

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

I'm not sure cause I am only 15 and just hit puberty but over about a couple of months my penis has grown to 5.1 in and i still have a high voice and not a lot of armpit hair, 5 in. is not small 5 in+ is good enough as long as you can work it. Don't spend your life afraid people wait all there life wondering. If you would just accept yourself and realise that you won't change your life wouldn't change. It's not like your going to be made fun of for 5.5 inches no offense, but I have only heard of poeple getting made fun of for 4 inches and below but that is only with guys that lie about their size. My friends like to brag about how big theirs is and they even say that there's nothing wrong with it being small if it's small it's small as long as you can float the boat then it don't matter.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008):

Yo dont worry homie just get out thier holla at the females ull be good aight just remember like how my gramps use to say is the motion in the ocean so dont worry do your thang if u got problems come to nyc the hood would help u get waht u want and the females would give u wat u need.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2007):

ya.... don't worry about it.... just accept the things God has given 2 ya.... if you need 2 buy pills or a penis pump if your partner wants to DO it..... or if ya want surgery is the permanent way.... or just consult a doctor about your problems

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2007):

nah man go have sex have some fun its not the size that maters its how you use it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007):

I'm 32 and mine is only 4.5" (I always got teased about my penis in the gym showers at school before puberty, then it was much smaller).

Now, It's not the only reason I'm still a virgin (lots of other inhibiting factors), but let's just say it's not helping at all. If mine was just even one more inch longer, I'd sure feel better about it. So 5.5" sounds satisfactory and yours is at the average size as mentioned.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

Well I've heard a lot about girls and caring about penis sizes and they couldn't care less as long as you know how to use what your given. Every girl I'm with has no problem with the size of my penis even although I'm a virgin.

I have measured my penis a number of times and I tell my ggirlfriends the size if they ask and some say that it's too big and some say it's just right. They say size doesn't matter to them which is the truth, it really doesn't to girls

I too am really insecure about how big my penis is especially the girth. I'm 7" long and have a girth of 5.1" I still think it's small even though I've been told a thousand times that it's not. It's all about a guy's self esteem, just don't worrie about it. 5.5 is an average size

My dad is 49 and he told me that his was 5.5 (for some reason unknown) and my mom says his was good for her so it's all about the way you use it. I have 1 brother and 1 sister and all together my parents have had 3 kids

I'm positive that if his penis was too small they wouldn't even have one child.

I know some guys that are 18 and have 2-3 inch dicks so you have nothing to be worried about, just go for it

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007):

i wish mine was ur size, mines only 2 inches if that!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2007):

well i wish i was tht big i am 17 and 4 iches i am scared stiff of having sex

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

i'm sure many women won't mind. it's the way you use it not the size.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007):

hey i am 5.5 and i have never had a woman complain the tongue will always make up the difference.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007):

Hi,

It's really interesting to hear all the different answeres.

I am 6 and a half or 7 inches full! on.

I am 16 and very very shy but for a totally different reason,

I am afraid of my general appearance not my willie size although I do worry about gurth.

All I can say is if and when I lose my virginty I'll use a technique which makes a girl cum loads then I should be fine.

don't worry bout your size man just go for it.

If I wasn't ugly I would.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007):

you should feel a shame i am 9 i have gotten plenty of pusy you lil punk

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

dont worry about it. your dang-a-lang is average size.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

Find the right lady, don't worry about size. What ever you have love, patience, time and commitment, to the person, will be better than worry. You are what you are enjoy the other person fully with trust and understanding.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007):

Hey bud... you have yourself a limiting belief. I'm also 5.5 in the wee wee... My girl was a beautiful woman (a solid 9.5 that turned eyes) and I always made it a point to try to cum after she cums or even at the same time. It's how you use it! I've never had any complaints.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2007):

hi every body who comment about their size.but i don't care i have 7 inches but i don't proud of it. the main thing you have to consider is try to play the best way that you make you patner happier the for you if you worried about the size you are wasting you time to think about natural things.

good luck!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007):

I have a small penis and i have had failures when i was not able to get an erection,this really knocked my confidence

but if your if you are worying, just relax and you will b ok

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007):

I have a small penis and i have had failures when i was not able to get an erection,this really knocked my confidence

but if your if you are worying, just relax and you will b ok

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007):

life really is tooooo short to worry about the size

of your penis, please enjoy what you what you have , you

dont know when you may loose it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007):

I have a 5"1/2 inch penis fully erect and i used have

a problem with it. but I have never had megative comments

about it from any woman. you must get a taste for cunnilingus

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007):

Hey dude, confidence is what you lack, not cock size. No woman is going to fuck you solely based on the size of your unit. Plus, straight and hard is better than big, long and soft! Oh, and she'll do it in the butt more willingly! hahahahahahah

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007):

DUde, I've got just the same as you, but you know what? I always have, and God willing , always will, Cum after my girls... I'm not bragging, but once you learn the art of your woman, you too can have this. Feeling shy is something everyone on earth has... but many still blossom in spite of it. Basically, my advice is keep your pool of girl limited to the ones you can know... i mean rally know. One night stands usually means that the girl is just there for the fun... and chances are she had a lot of nights full of fun like that if you are in that situation.. this is inviting the negativity... if she does not truly appreciate you he may view you as a lack luster night out on the Hound. I'm not saying be metro or anything... be yourself. Find good Partners - if you are into th Look thing be careful... these people attract people just like the Girl who rode you that night and told everyone that you were not good. (hypothetical) Remember, Knowledge of your partner, and the reciprocation of respect and caring is the type of relationship that we all want - look for tht and once you find it, you will never have any concerns about you little dude.

Look, ive been with thick girls, Tall girls, and some pretty Slutty ones, but they all came before me... you need to unlick the power of you mind. Sex ix like driving a car... if you drive the car and there is no music, no matter how londg the distance, the mind focuses on reaching the destination, However, With musick, that ride is enjoyable, and you may even drop off you friend before you go home, cuz the music was that good. Make of this what you will, but what i mean is that if you are sharing that intimate moment, dont be thinking... is she fellin me, or am i too small, think grandeur, - tell your self you are not doing yourself a service, but remember you have this woman giving you her all in search of pleasure... and think any misdirecting thoughts if you feel climax.. stop, instead of penetrating if you feel to climax, go all the way in and catch your breath, but remember to kiss alot and kiss when all up thre to keep the passion alive,

PAssion is our art.. we are not as big as others but we sure as hell can make sure we are better lovers... and in my life thus far, that is what wounted to my women

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007):

im 22 i know i have an average penis (6 inches) but society

makes you feel like you are worthless for being normal i rarely go out with anyone and forget about talking to girls my self esteem is destroyed and just don't care anymore i'm six foot, medium build, wavy hair and i feel like a lepper we can improve our self worth here on the computer but step out into the real world and you'll be slammed back to the bottom.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

the average penis length is 6.16 inches.

The average girth is 4.84 inches.

come on bud, I'm 16 and 6 maybe 6.25 w/e im in that area,

If A woman is that worried about our size then f*** it.

You need to be happy you have a penis :D

So stop worring about how big it is or how far it's going in,

just put it in and ride er like a pony.

Have Fun!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2007):

I am 41 mine is 4.5 to 5 and 3.5 around I am real insecure

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007):

Hey, don't feel bad about your size. I know the media tends to make a big deal about big dicks and big boobs, but it's ultimately what you can do with it. Don't feel bad about being a virgin, most guys your age consider themselves sex veterans and have NO CLUE what they are doing in bed. Plus, I know a handful of girls that rather take a small dick over a bigger one. It's less painful.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2007):

I wouldn't feel shy. I've recently started a relationship with a guy who was shy initially, but I've not had as much fun in ages. We went to bed in the middle of the afternoon yesterday and I've not done that for years. I've not put a tape measure on him but he's about 7 inches. When I hold his cock it feels really thick too. My thumb and middle finger dont touch when I'm giving a hand-job. I just can't get enough of him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007):

my husband love him to death has a 4.5 only because he is a big guy .. 5.5 when I measured last. but anyways. we have wonderful sex.. so hang in there. and find that girl to have sex with ..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2007):

Dude, the real problem is NOT the size or the way you look! I have the same problem and i think it's just my damn brain playing tricks on me! I'm 21 (6'1" , 200lbs) with an 8" penis! Guess how many times i went on a date ?

0 ! And why is that ? Well because i just seem to find the strenght to ask a girl out !!! And when it happens that a girl asks me out I always freak out and try to find an excuse like : "I'm sooooo busy! Sorry but i really don't have the time for a date right now!" just to avoid going out! It's not that i want to say that , i just say it damn it! And so the next moment i feel sorry! I'm going for shrink sessions maybe that will help dunno! You might try seeing a psychotherapist too!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007):

Theirs nothing to be shy about if your gay...

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (31 August 2006):

Yos agony auntMen are to penis size like women are to body size.

Men always think their cocks are too small.

Women always think that their bodies are too fat (or too thin, or too something)

Hence telling a man his cock is too small is like telling a woman her bumb doesn't look good in those jeans. Both are totally unforgivable!

Men don't care about a womans body as long as the owner is sexy, and they are not freakishly fat or freakishly thin. I know big girls I think are incredibly sexy, and think girls who are really unnatractive.

Women don't care about cock size unless its freakishly big or freakishly small. Neither of these are good. Same difference.

FYI, 5 1/2 inches is middle of the road average. You are hung totally fine. No woman is going to have a problem with the size of your cock at all.

As for the shyness thing... that's nothing to do with your penis. It's to do with your mind. The best way to get over that is practice :)

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A female reader, snowbird Canada +, writes (31 August 2006):

snowbird agony aunt5.5? - That's a fine size, don't be shy, for goodness sake! I had a couple of boyfriends who had large penises, and they could'nt go too fast, or get too excited because they would really hurt!! And that does'nt really make them the best of lovers, poor things! So thatkind of size is for porn movies only, really - for fantasies, like those women with pneumatic artificial breasts!! Cartoon characters, I call them!

I would much prefer a man who can do any position, and really go fast, and to feel free to lose himself in the moment without me having to say "ow, stop, you're hurting me"! So, don't worry, your finest hour(s) are yet to come!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2006):

two words, tubby bob!!!!!

I too am 23 and a V (never had a date in my life either bud). use to think i was butt ugly. im tone and about 150lbs. i floss regularly too. Cant seem to find anyone so i figured that i just plain sux. WELL after hearing about and see TUBBY BOB i feel fan freaking tastic. JESUS, if this guy can do it we can man. Hang in there, Hell already froze over for this guy, im sure it will for us.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2006):

jesus christ mate im 16 and my dick is 6 inches, thats like 1/2 bigger than yours and lets put it this way my girlfriend loves me. how much difference can 1/2 an inch make? dont be shy if works then USE IT!!!!

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A female reader, mystify +, writes (27 January 2006):

mystify agony auntwhats wrong with 5.5 inches?! i once was with a guy who was so small it wouldnt penetrate! (im talking 1/2 inch!!!) if its in there its good! , to be honest i feel more when its smaller and isnt it width they say is more not length , well too deep just hurts! (or is at least uncomfortable)

dont feel shy , the only time ive really noticed size is either , when the guy goes on about it or when its so deep its uncomfortable

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2006):

their are alot men out there that have Low self esteem about the size of their sex organ ....it is a rough road to travel ....but there is some for you out there just be eazy and take your time

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006):

i thought it wasn't normal to be a virgin at 20, so this helped me, i just turned twenty and i feel like sex will never come. and if it even matters my dick is 7.5 inches so i dont kno what im all worried about i just feel like the oppurtunity never arises.hmmm, probly cuz im an alcoholic!

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A female reader, Bev Conolly Australia +, writes (7 January 2006):

Bev Conolly agony auntSex is not about size, it's about style!

Furthermore --and I'm going to get this tattooed on my forehead, just so I can stop saying it and writing it-- only men care about penis size. Women don't care!

Read my typing: w-o-m-e-n d-o-n-'-t c-a-r-e.

Any woman who is attracted enough to consider getting into the horizontal folkdance with you isn't going to be whipping out a measuring tape, for goodness sake!

Five inches, five-and-a-half, six... So what? The nerve endings in a woman's vagina are right near the opening, anyway, so there's very little difference between 5 and 6 inches during actual sex.

Five and a half inches is just fine, on the average side of normal. What are you shy about? I personally know a pair of identical twins, whose willies are so short that there isn't even enough sticking out to flop! And you're shy about 5 1/2 inches? My twin friends have regular girlfriends and regular sex... and you know why? Because women don't care about penis size!

Be a careful, thoughtful and fun lover. Be willing to experiment with whatever your partner likes best. Think about her needs before your own... and you'll be sought after like gold!

Take care...

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A female reader, amyz +, writes (6 January 2006):

Aw hon, dont b shy. I dont really think girls like huge fellas atleast i dont. My bf is about 6 inches and sometimes i wish he was a lil smaller, it kinda hurts even though he's going slowly. Dont worry, when u decide to do it, it'll b great.

NB: Average penis size is 5.25 u r above average!

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (6 January 2006):

kellyO agony auntDearie, u shouldnt be shy about ur body. Everybody has different sizes and to me its not the size that matters. I prefer a guy who is honest and loving. who treats a woman with respect than one who has a bigger sized organ. i am sure plenty of ladies will tell u the same.

Feel free with your body and go out on a date. Allow sex and everything to come naturally.There are plenty of women who will love you.

Goodluck.

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