A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ive been casually dating this one chick that i used to work with for about a month now. Im 18 and she's 26. I have my own place,car, and full time job making decent money and so does she. we went on a few dates and even spent new years eve and christmas eve together drinking wine and watching funny movies. we started having sex after the 2nd date and since then, we've been hanging out often. After the 2nd time we had sex she even took me out to breakfast and introduced me to a few of her friends. however since then, it feels like every time i come over (around 11-12 at night) all we do is drink and have sex and then i leave in the early morning because of her work schedule. We both have busy schedules and i work 5 days a week late at a restaurant. Is it possible that our busy schedules are just conflicting with our time together, or is she just inviting me over to have sex with her and leave. she doesnt strike me as the player type, but then again, ive been wrong once before. Coming from an older woman's perspective, what would your intentions be with a guy so young as myself when your in your mid 20s? To be honest, it doesnt really matter that much to me, cuz lets face it, its a win win for me. just curious :)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Sounds like you're casually seeing each other. Are you wondering if you're just a booty call to her? What do you want from this relationship? Are you looking for something exclusive and serious?
If you're hanging out, watching movies, meeting her friends, it doesn't sound like she's just using you for sex. More like, she enjoys your company and likes having sex with you. I don't think her age has much to do with it, all though perhaps she's old enough to realize that what she wants right now in her busy life, is a guy who she can have fun with and have great sex with, but not have the heaviness of a relationship with... maybe she just doesn't have time for all of that.
If you're happy and she's happy, this sounds like an optimal situation for both of you. Enjoy it!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): So,, you getting more serious about this relationship than she is?? Age factor in of itself is NOT a factor at all! Definately sounds like your getting laid,, now where you're getting played or not,, it depends alot on how much you have or are investing emotionally into this situation. And what you really want in this relationship.(you do realize there's about 1/2 million guys who would gladly be in your position in a heartbeat??) :-) :-)
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