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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am a non-traditional student(well over 21) at a university. Last semester I got the impression that my professor, whom I liked very much, may have been interested in me. He doesn't know my true age. At the end of the semester he worked a comment into a lecture that I know was directed at me, essentially saying that this wouldn't go farther than the classroom. It's been 2 months and I still have feelings for him. I see him occasionally at school but can't get the nerve to talk to him. I need to get over this but I just can't. I'm much too old to have a crush like this, and I need to take his other courses to finish my minor but I can't bear the thought of it. How do I get over it? I really have strong, but probably unwarranted feelings for him.
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reader, billy bilou  +, writes (4 February 2010):
 I suppose you are aged between 26-29 years. So why do you view yourself as too old to have such a crush. Is there an appropriate age to have a crush. You know we cannot control our feelings and we do not choose whom we will fall for. I understand that you may not have the courage to tell him your feelings face to face. However, You will be haunted by him unless you do something. Why don't you write him a letter and tell him about your feelings instead? As long as he is not marrried then you should open up your heart with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): finding a guy that is available might help.If you are sure his comments were directed specifically at you,, move on girl.Take off the blinders and look around you,, I'm thinking there is some guy who is interested in you.
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