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I'm 15 and crushing for her. But how can I determine if she feels the same?

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Question - (16 August 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2016)
A female United States age 22-25, *iliana3467 writes:

I met a girl at a Summer camp this year and we became close friends. She lives far away (well, in the same state) but we still keep in touch.

The problem is, I've taken a real liking to her and I am crushing on her like nobody's business.

She acts like she also likes me, but I don't know how to tell her or if I even should.

Does anyone have advice?

P.S: I'm not worried about if she likes girls or not, she's told me that she is a lesbian.

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A female reader, Thatgirllol United States +, writes (24 August 2016):

Thatgirllol agony auntTELL HER!!! I did this with my friend(currant gf) and I wish we would have admitted to liking eachother sooner! We were both nervous the other didn't feel the same way, but we actually did lol. There's only one way to find out just tell ask her 'if I tell you something we can still be friends right...?' And hopefully she's say yes and you can tell her. It sounds like she likes you just as much as you like her:) but when you tell her you like her be sweet and tell her why you like her you might get her wrapped around your finger faster that you can blink. I'm sure everything will be fine good luck!!!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (17 August 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntIt is nice you have met someone that you care about, the problem here is that you both live so far away so even if you both do like each other, at your age long distance will never work. It is okay to tell her how you feel, but I think you also need to accept that nothing will happen when you live so far apart.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2016):

Denizen agony auntI don't want to sound patronising because your feelings are what they are. However at your age your hormones could be all over the place - at least that is what we are told.

I think you need to be realistic about if or how your friendship could develop. Is there any chance?

I suggest you keep it on a friendship level for now. Don't commit anything to paper or where it could be recorded about your deeper feelings. This could come back and bite you when you least expect it.

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