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*wilight#1
writes:I first saw this guy when I was walking through my college's club fair, he was standing by his clubs post and I knew from the second I saw him that he was special, I knew I had to speak with him, and know him. Sooo I was too shy to go up to him... and I found him on facebook and emailed him concerning 'the theater club'. He volunteered to meet me and show me around.... I was excited and so I did, and when I was with him and talking to him I felt absolutely.... just right... We started to see each other more but I noticed he was unobservant on all the flirting I was doing... so I thought he wasn't into me... but I started talking to him on aim and he just opened up and told me all his problems with this girl..... and I was happy that I knew what was bothering him.... but Why would he tell me this... only knowing me for so little... and we make eye contact and acknowledge each other... but its so tense.... should I continue with this guy, thats caught up? I know he would like me if it wasn't for this other girl.... I'm I alone on how strongly I feel... I get that he wants to like me but doesn't allow himself too...
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (9 November 2008):
 i never wanted to give a bad opinion about your faith. i'm a pessimist by nature, so i like to give people full of happyness, another perceiving. don't misintrerpret my comentary. just trying to calm down all of that excitement. and in fact i do know your situation. but who cares anyway? i never intended to make enemies. sorry even for trying to clarify the situation, never intended to disrespect your silence. i do not consider you a dumb girl with personality problems, i even admire how you can have so much faith. oh and i was saying you can have control about, OTHER's people lifenow i nothing more to saybest wishes:E.U Atmard
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (9 November 2008):
Twilight#1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hehehe you are so wrong... =) (of course I have control over my own life, not his) please don't pretend like you know me or anything of my situation... you are untitled to your own opinion... I will agree to disagree ... you see me as a dumb girl that has a personality problem, and I see myself as a person who has faith while loving life =) Sooo best wishes... you have nothing furthermore to say to me...
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reader, the one who doesn't know +, writes (9 November 2008):
it's interesting that you feel angry wth me. you think you have no control over life. yet you do. you've just not perceived that. being angry with my "live with it"...
blowing all with my expression heheh. do you know something? go to this site http://www.mindpowernews.com/Top5.html. hypnose is the best way to get what you want. and if you think i'm sailing in black waters, when i say "live with it", you are so wrong. i learned that the same way you should. having another person on my way, to a girl in my case. the only difference is that i suffer from a psychiatric disease, called "borderline personality disease. and it's being... nice to have someone who shares my vision...
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (9 November 2008):
Twilight#1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFYI the more I read your comment the more it angers me... I do "live with it" you have no clue on how much I "live with it". I do live with the fact that I fell in love alone... I do "live with it" everyday. I "live with" the fact that I have to hide my feelings, how every second I think of him "I live with it" Trust me you don't have the slightest clue on how much and how good "I live with it"
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (9 November 2008):
Twilight#1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthis is regarding "the one who doesn't know" comment... well let me clarify a few things for you... number one, this is how I feel... I feel like I have a chance if he wasn't caught up in this other chick... number two, this is fact my feet are on the ground... I am no fool, love does not make me a fool... number three, I know I have no control over his life I'm not pressuring anything on him, actually he is clueless on how I feel so how would that be controlling... and he will remain clueless... If you haven't read my response below I stated that I will lay low and if it was meant to be it will happen...
If you feel necessary to response to this..."the one who doesn't know" please do so. I would like to know your view furthermore...
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reader, the one who doesn't know +, writes (9 November 2008):
god i'm starting to feel angry with you my friend. you keep saying "if it wasn't..." well it isn't. live with it. you have know power over his life, unless you're a manipulator. stop focusing on the past or paralel presents, and put you're feet on the ground.
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (7 November 2008):
Twilight#1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much! Yes all your responses have been food for thought. The road I'm 95% sure I will be taking is the lay low road. I'm trying to let it go... try to forget about him and me romantically... It's unfair... things like this always happen to me... always a girl involved... talktoomuch you're so right I would hate to be a rebound girl... but I just know that if he wasn't wrapped up with this other girl ... we would be great for each other.... and thats the hardest part...
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reader, pulchritudia +, writes (6 November 2008):
I've had this happen before in the past. We had a great connection, but the connection that I thought was there, and the reality of the connection were two different things.
He's probably connecting with you on a friend level. If he were to tell you that he wished she were more like you, then you'd be right on the money. But, I wouldn't put your heart into it. Just take it with a grain of salt and be a friend. There are more fabulous men out there that will make your heart flutter with content! :)
If all else fails, tell him how you feel. That is the only way you will truly know. It's better than to ask/talk to him about it, than to always wonder, "what if".
I wish you luck! :)
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reader, xxhoplesslyhisxx +, writes (6 November 2008):
well this guy could be telling you this because he feels confortable with you. this actually happened to me once and he said he liked me but never went with it and he would always tell me that he was in love with his best friend (she was a girl) it hurt but i understood i wansnt the one he wanted. maybe you should just confront him and ask him wat is going on with you 2 or with him and this girl and wat he wants in to happen with you ( if yoyr just friends) and this girl
i hope i helped please keep me updated
ohh btw twilight rocks =)
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