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writes:I've been dating a man for 5 years. It's been great. This past August he moved out. I was out of town for 4 months, when I got back he was gone. He tells me he's still attractive to me. He is seeing another woman. I don't understand. We get along so well. I saw him about 3 weeks ago and we ended up in bed. He said this was too much for him to handle and set him back. I leave him alone. No text, email, or calling him. I miss the crap out of him. I know this is the man I'm suppose to be with. I know we had our issues, but we could of worked them out. He sent me a letter saying he was emotionally tired and couldn't give me anymore. and advice. thanks.
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reader, pausing +, writes (6 November 2008):
pausing is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all your help. But, can you believe he just tex me to see who I voted for, and ask me how I was.
I know he still has feelings for me, and I know I deserve more than this. I just don't feel like being in the dating thing again. He also tells me he's not living with her. I really think he's mad at me, or he just want to move on.
I just moved back to this area and looking for work. rrrrr!
Maybe when I find work I'll have something to do!
thanks for all your advice.
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reader, pausing +, writes (6 November 2008):
pausing is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your help. I still have hope. but I do have to get on with my life. It's hard without him, but I will go on.
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reader, pausing +, writes (6 November 2008):
pausing is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the imput! I should say that he when we met he was head over heels for me. I didn't feel the same, but than i did. Over the next two years we where together all the time. We moved out of state for his job, than his job brought him back. I wanted to stay. I complained for the next two years. When the townhouse we rented came up, I said why don't I go there paint it, put the for sale sign up, work, and than come home. He supported me on this. He even moved into my apartment for no rent. when I came home in Aug. he was gone. I have seen him two weeks ago and we had sex. Bad move. He said this put in back. I haven't heard from him since. I know he's seeing someone. any advice? I love him , but I do have to get on with my life.
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reader, xxhoplesslyhisxx +, writes (6 November 2008):
unfortunatly i think that he does not feel the same way to you as you do to him. this happens to the best of us. maybe soon enough hell realize that he misses you and loves you
sorry im not that much help let me know wat happens
good luck
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