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Husband ignores me for days whenever we row. It's making me an emotional wreck. What can I do?

Q.   Every time my husband and I row, he ignores me for days. It drives me crazy, I even say I'm sorry to mend things but he treats me as if I do not exist. He will come into a room and look at me to wait for me to respond then once I look at him back...

A.   14 January 2013: sounds like he's a good manipulator to me. usually when men stay quiet they are normally hiding something.... (read in full...)

If I hate him, can someone please help me figure out why I stay?

Q.   I'm seeing a man I like sometimes, hate sometimes who annoys me most of the time. He can be sweet but still. Now I'm shocked that I've spent seven months with him! He's the opposite of what I appreciate in a man: ungentlemanly, often conceited and ...

A.   14 January 2013: highly agree with the others on here. don't waste yor time get out of the relationship u are worth it. first off when someone has to question a relationship or dig for truth. more then likely this fellow is not for u.... (read in full...)

How long do I wait for my husband to make up for a terrible 20th anniversary weekend?

Q.   Married 20 years, received only a handful of birthday, anniversary, special occasion gifts. Read all the help columns and told husband exactly what I wanted for anniversary which was a week trip so we could reconnect. I started planning and he said ...

A.   14 January 2013: how about get out of that sour relationship, and go enjoy your trip with someone who respects you. Any male that has to go to a stip joint while he has is wife sitting at home says enough. ... (read in full...)

How can I block out what my parents said and still lead a happy life?

Q.   I asked a question sometime ago (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-just-flunked-out-of-college-and-am.html) I was feeling very hopeful and confident about my future after reading the responses. I told my parents and they did not take the news we...

A.   14 January 2013: if you are very much past eighteen of age. you are intitled to pretty much enjoy yor own will. but if you are not you have no choice in the matter until you're a legalized adult. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend lost his dad and is suffering, but he raised his hand to me and is very angry/abusive. What if he does it again?

Q.   Hey everyone, I am 24 and I have been dating my boyfriend since I was 15!things were going really great,we got into the same college finished our degress,we have a very good job,although my boyfriend comes from a rich family but yet he decided ...

A.   14 January 2013: not at all how old are you? leave as soon as possiable. these are red flags that your relationship is not healthy. no matter how, much he begs it just part of a manipulation and mind game. detatch yourself from someone like that and if you are ... (read in full...)

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