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writes: I'm 16 nearly 17, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. He's 20, and it's been brilliant. We have a good sex life and everything is going great. But since he's lost his internet he will come round mine with me and he checks his emails but then starts chatting on chatrooms to girls. Am I being paranoid? That really hurt me, made me feel like I'm not good enough for him so he has to chat to others. Even when we're in the street he'll see a nice girl and say to me she's got nice boobs or she's got a nice *beep*, and I'm not exactly slim slim, but it really runs me down in thinking I'm nothing like that, If it's what he really wants why's he with me?? He tells me that he loves me all the time though. Also when he was on msn I saw him talking about sex with an old school friend her saying she doesn't get it enough and that and he told her to get a sex buddy and he started asking her what shes into etc... and today I went out shopping with a relative and he said he's meeting up with 2 old school friends, one who's just come back from Canada and one he just hasn't seen, both are girls. I want to trust him, but looking at girls in the street and talking to them online, I don't know if I can. Is it just me being jealous or something? Plz plz help, I've been beating myself up over this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2005): Sorry to break it to you, but he's only holding on to you for sex.
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (25 October 2005):
 Well, you're not being paranoid, you do have reason to worry! I think you should talk to him about how you feel before acting upon any of your actions though. Have you talked to him about how he acts and how uncomfortable it makes you? That's the important part. You need communication for a relationship to work. If this doesn't make you feel good about yourself, let him know. Maybe he doesn't realize what he's doing, but then again, maybe he does and doesn't care. In that case, you should just forget about him cuz he isn't worth it.
He doesn't exactly have a right to come to your house and get on your computer and chat with girls. Ask him how he would feel if you treated him the same way and see what he has to say. This just doesn't seem fair to me on how he's treatig you.
If you talk to him about how you feel and nothing changes after that or you don't like the response, then just forget about him and find someone new or stay single for awhile. You may not have anyone to turn to, but do you want to live like this also? You're probably better off by yourself. If you don't have anyone, can't you talk to your relatives? Find someone to keep you occupied and keep your mind off him. Just make the right decision and don't let someone treat you a way you don't like. No one deserves such treatment.
Good Luck!
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