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writes: Hello, basically I'm a 22 year old man. I was seeing this girl for about 3 1/2 months ago. It was only a short relationship. It lasted around 2 months. It ended because I went on holiday. We never actualy slept together. The problem is I can't forget about her. I contact her a lot, even though i know she has a boyfriend of about 2 months. What should I do? I can't move on. I've met other girls since but have no interest in them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): I think I'm in the same situation. I dated this guy for a couple months last year, and it went so well we stayed in touch (he lives in another state), in spite of the fact that we'd probably never be together. It's been almost a year now, and I was under the impression that he still cared about me, but I just found out that he has completely moved on. He's dating a girl that seems to be just his type, and who looks like she honestly reciprocates the way he feels, so I should be happy for him, right? ... except that I can't seem to get over him. I've seen/slept with other people since, but he's the only one I think about.
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reader, darren guy +, writes (31 October 2005):
hi there mate first thing is its only been 2 months u said
right at the moment thers nothing u can do but keep
in mind that soon as she finishes with him then have a talk with her maybe co days if she dont want t to know then forget it dar
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (27 October 2005):
To be honest, even though she has a boyfriend and it seems unfair to get in between them. If she is going to finish with him to be with you then it will happen wether you tell her your feelings or not because whats meant to be will be and sometimes in life you have to be a little selfish and think about yourself.
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reader, Angel-lee +, writes (27 October 2005):
I would be completely honest with her, tell her that you still really really like her and that she knows where you are. Tell her the truth thats all you can do. Believe me if you dont tell her you will regret it in the future, even if nothing comes of it, you know that she is aware of how you feel and that you done everything you could to make her aware of how you feel. Tell her, if she doesnt return the feelings there and then, give her a chance, as long as she is aware that you are still very much interested, she will have no choice but to think about you and what life would be like now if she was with you. Believe me be honest with her, even if you write her a letter or send her a text just be completely honest about how you feel
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