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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Last week my boyfriend was at a party with his friends. At this party for some reason was a 29 year old man. This was a party hosted for teenagers by teenagers. This man had added a few of my friends on Facebook and he seemed to only interact with the males. He would comment on their posts or on their Walls. Examples of the things he would post on my boyfriend's wall: 'you cutie sleepihead" or "b**** pop up chat me when you get this ;)" Ofcourse I was unnerved that an emaciated, receding hair lined, middle aged looking man was interacting with my peers (we are all 15-16) so I confronted my boyfriend about this, he scolded mentor being so untrustful and called me clingy... we made up afterwards because we were going through a rough patch before that time an now my boyfriend doesn't interact with that man now, although he promised me he never did of his own accord. So for two days now, this odd man who I have never met has moved onto contacting me, he's started messaging me. I'll give you a few examples of what he's said: "Hey you look nice and a good person to get along with feel free to add me :)" "have you got a bf or gf?" "so and so is hosting a large gathering in the park, you should come, I'll be there :)"I've been playing along by just replying with generic response like "I'm fine and how are you?" or if he asks what I'm up to I'll just say I'm studying. But I want to expose he's a true creep, hence I don't want to sever a contact link. He hasn't done the crime as of yet (just what seems like innocentish flirting on Facebook with minors) hence I can't call the authorities. I'm on vacation half way across the world from him at the moment so I think I'm pretty safe, but when I get back I want this creep to stop lurking around my social circle... What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): erm i think this is pretty simple. stop replying. your question is contradictory because while youre saying you want him to go away, you are replying to him whenever he makes contact with you. what kind of signals do you think that might send to him? cut him out of your life. he will get the message.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (21 April 2011):
 1. Tell your parents.
2. Block his creepy ass. And stop talking to him.
3. Inform your friends about the creep.
Is this some random stranger? Or is he an older brother, friend, neighbor of someone?
I would honestly have an ADULT tell him to take a hike if he doesn't get the hints. A 29 year old shouldn't have much in common with a bunch of teenager (no offense).
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011): You need to tell all your friends about this guy so they can gang up on him and tell him to back off. He's for sure a creep and arguably just very aggressive and seemingly after a few things. Red flags here. Oh and Im 26... do I look middle aged? :P
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (21 April 2011):
 You need to tell all of your female friends of your concerns about this man. He shouldn't be hanging around with 15-16 year olds full stop. It's inappropriate. If any of them experience any inappropriate activity from him, then they should call the authorities.
In the meantime, you could possibly tell him yourself that you don't think what he is doing is appropriate and that he should go and find some friends his own age really.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 April 2011):
 you can't stop him from being with your friends if they wish it but you should block him.
AND when he shows up you should leave. yes it sucks that you will miss out on fun and games with your friends but this guy rightfully gives you the creeps...
and tell mom and dad about him...sometimes adults have a better ability to handle inappropriate adults than teens do.
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