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*ydlucky26
writes:im in a relation with a girl since the past 3 and half years...............since day one she has been very close to her friends. 98% of her friends are men....They used to tease us as i am shorter than her by 2 inches.....they all used to fondle her .by touching her cheeks .keepings hands on her shoulders.....n flirting in many other ways......that too even in my presenceI thought things would get better if i took her home and introduced her to my parents.......even after that she did not change.....many male friends kept on flirting with her. her excuse was that i dont know what is flirting so i cant recognize when someone is doing that!!!! She has openly admitted recently that she did flirt with them n the greatest tragedy is that ispite of doing all this stuff..........her recent conversation with a guy whom she met only once was like thisShe- HiGuy- Hey Moti(chubby girl)then blah blah blah blahGuy- "Kiss me"? (Hindi kis me means -for/in what?)she- hahahah what a joke, come home next time Guy - yupThen v had a bitter fight and she deleted her facebook account n requested me not to break off. But this afternoon again she told me that she wants to reactivate the account ........only for playing games...when i sulked she is like....u have always been like this........never gave me freedom........ive lost all my friends only coz of u..n ur still that old possessive insecure guy...........i have done so many things for you.......Guys this has become a daily incident nowShe flirtsI QuestionShe Cries I ForgiveAgain she flirts......then it goes onPlz Help
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 I asked my fiance one day if he minded if I flirted. I'm an outrageous flirt. His comment "you flirt like you breathe, I'd have to ask you to stop breathing if I asked you to stop flirting"
what he means is my flirting is so natural and normal to me that i don't think twice about it... it does not in any way shape or form mean I am cheating on him or want to cheat on him or that he is not enough... it means that
GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN!
I see this a lot and wrote an interesting article on it:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/who-is-a-natural-flirt-and-what-qualities.html
see if any of these things make you think of your gf.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 There is nothing wrong with someone having an innocent flirt as long as that is all it is. She is right you are insecure. There really is nothing that you have mentioned that says she is flirting outrageously. What is the worst thing she has done? If you do not learn to trust her well then you and her are never going to work out and you are as well ending the relationship and moving on. However you need to learn not to be so insecure and to trust future partners. At the end of the day she is allowed to have male friends. Also it is her choice if she wants to go on facebook again not yours, and you sulking about her making this decision shows that you are being immature about this relationship. Facebook is there to stay in contact with friends and family and yes also play games but she should be allowed to be on facebook to chat to friends as well.
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