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I think my boyfriend now has gay tendencies, what can I do?

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Question - (10 April 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 January 2009)
A female , anonymous writes:

MY boyfriend Josh and I recently had a threesome with another girl. It was such fun I suggested having one with a guy. Josh was keen and when his old flat mate from university came to stay he told me Neil was really up for it.

It was great at first. I made love to Josh while Neil watched and pleasured himself, then Neil and I started having sex. But halfway through Josh and Neil began touching each other. They were both getting off on it and I was so disgusted I stormed out.

I can't bear Josh touching me now because he's clearly got gay tendencies.

Kate

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2009):

Hey, you need to get over it. If you have a threesome with a girl, it is a guys' fantasy to see you touch and get her off. A three by nature is the pleasuring of three people simultaneously. You are just very selfish to think that the guys are only there to pleasure you. That makes you a slut. You need to understand the dynamics of a threesome and just accept it as a time in which the 3 of you pleasured each other. I can't believe that you stormed out on it. YOu are either a selfish slut or a dumb idiot that shouldn't ever be doing a threesome. It is a thing in which you are not worthy to take part in again as long as your mindset is like that. I hope your boyfriend finished off with the guy and busted a nut without you.

You disgust me with your reaction. You owe your boyfriend and his buddy an apology and you need to prove it by doing it again with the same guys or never do it again. I can't believe you would take a hot event and turn it sour! Boy you stink!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007):

hey,

i think that your boyfriend isnt gay. however i do believe that he has gay tendencies. He obviously has a tendancy for guys if he was getting off on it. The real question i would ask here is where your boyfriend and his flatmate have had any sexual contact prior to the threesom...

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A male reader, shadow13 +, writes (11 April 2006):

shadow13 agony auntthreesomes really are for sexual experaments like that i dont approve of them but its just some thing you have to deal with it was your mistake every one in there life time will experament the gay side at least once but maybe this was his time but you really encouraged it by haveing the threesome so dont go hard on him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006):

Ummm, what to say about a homo like that? Get him back and turn into a lesbian. Maybe even make a movie of you blowing off some random guy in the street and send it to his mothers house. Thats what I did to my ex boyfriend who did that to me. Just except when he started touching his friend they ended up busting on eachothers faces.

I hate my life!

I will hang myself now.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (10 April 2006):

Angelicc agony auntcan i ask during your threesome with a girl did you touch her and get off on it.

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