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writes: I love my partner very much and am due to get married in a matter of weeks. We have been under enormous pressure for the past few months with the wedding, money worries and my partners depression in a job he hates, resulting in his total withdrawl and sometimes angry outburts. I recently started a new job which was a big boost to my lacking self confidence and I knew instantly that my new boss was attracted to me. I have flirted with him but last week I stupidly took things further and slept with him. I am now in total turmoil, I do not even fancy the man and the thought of losing everything makes me feel ill. I have a wonderful partner and was planning on starting a family after the wedding. At a time when I should have made more effort to support the man I love I looked else where. Can i possible marry him and make those vows knowing what I have done? Im so ashamed of myself. Help please.
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reader, shania  +, writes (15 May 2006):
 Ok...you have made a big mistake by sleeping with your boss,you did it the once and you have realised that it was a silly thing to do.I guess you were flattered with the attention...it took your mind off the problems you were having between your partner but you now you have come to your senses and realised that you have more to lose.If you really love your boyfriend and you do want to marry him then i suggest that you have a heart to heart chat with him,discussing on what you two want out of life...if the stress of the impending wedding and the lack of money etc that is getting in the way then it might be a good idea to postpone the wedding until you both feel 100% ready.Whats the point in arguing over money and your boyfriends stress with the job,if its going to break up your relationship?...I really think a good talk is vital...good luck.
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reader, Ainley +, writes (14 May 2006):
 well ill say one thing at least you know you've done wrong. but one question for you, would you want to know if he'd done the same? theres your answer. good luck friend lets hope he has a big enough heart.
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