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writes:i need a bit of relationship advice now (sorry for this being long)im 14 and my bfs 15 were both in year 10 and the other day we were at a party recently we have been inseparable i dont know why but any way at this party we were at there was this new boy in our year and i admit he is fit and i talk to him a lot. he's like my new best friend(NBF) and i started talking to him wen we were at the party and my bf came over and said stop flirting with my girlfriend. And NBF said he wasnt i said ''leave it'' to my bf and he did. anyway the next day the NBF sent me a text while i was in the bathroom and my bf had my phone he looked at it and it said, ''i love you i want us to be together and dump your mong of a bf'' and my boyfriend got really mad and punched my NBFi came out and ran to my NBF and asked him what happened he said your bf punched me and then my bf comes and pushes me to the floor because i was helping my NBF and my bf started telling every one i was a tart and that we'd slept together and all that.but the problem with that is he told my best friend and she used to go out with my bf she slapped me now every body thinks im a slag and my bf hates me. what can i do to fix things and get me and my bfs relationship back on track no matter wot ill love hime anyway any ideas ? xxxx
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 well the first thing you need to realize is that your nbf was flirting with you and was trying to get in on your relationship. obviously it worked. also your bf was very immature and needs to do some serious growing up, but so do you. you always need to put the other persons shoes on. from his perspective you were hitting on a very attractive guy who was hitting back, and he felt threatend. he didnt react properly but he did have a point. now you need to make a decision who is most important. you bf, who is very immature adn possesive, or a nbf who is hitting on you and wanting to start a relationship with you. yes your reputaion will be ruined, but you need to surround yourself wiht ppl who care about you and dont let rumours affect their judgement of you. even if that is only a small circle of ppl they are still more important than the rest of the school.
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