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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I were making out and it went a little further. We ended up doing oral. Now I every time we kiss I get an erection. Even just regular "goodbye" kisses. I didn't have a problem with this before. How can I stop it from happening? I know how to hide it but how can I stop it?
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (28 August 2013):
Why stop it from happening if you can hide it? I find it awesome if a guy gets an erection while kissing me! Maybe your gf feels about this the same way.. I mean, us women sometimes feel very empowered when we see we can cause such a reaction.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2013): you can't stop it because it doesn't happen voluntarily.
you don't have to hide it either. it happens to all males and it's normal (even interesting) to girls although they act like they find it awkward. Just go through the posts on this website and see how many women wished their men could get aroused while being with them.
I don't mean you should push your erection to your girlfriend's face, but you shouldn't be ashamed of it either.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 August 2013):
 you can't stop it and the more you think you can the worse it will be..
it's NORMAL.... and it will go away with time and age...
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reader, CMMP +, writes (27 August 2013):
It's easy, get a little more experience and it'll go away. Your penis has a separate brain. When you're kissing it says "oh yeah, I'm about to get a bj." After awhile it'll realize this won't happen every time.
Or you can just wait a few years. Boners are a part of being a teenager. There is no good way to prevent them, just hide it.
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