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I need help?! My dad stares at my breasts and down there, is this normal?

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Question - (9 August 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2009)
A female United States age 22-25, *monation96 writes:

ok hi my parents are divorced and my dad likes looks at me at lot 2 times i saw him looking at mt breasts and he always hugs me and if he sees that i have make up on he tells me im beautiful without it and i also saw him stare at me a lot and once he was staring at me like my breast and like down there. i am wanting to know if that is normal or what. plz answer my question idk if i am just paranoid or wat plz help me put

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (9 August 2009):

baddogbj agony auntPlease be really careful here because a wrong word to the wrong person and you could really screw up your relationship with your Dad for years to come. Unless you have some other reason to think that your dad is strange then he is probably just proud of you. Possibly you remind him of your Mum when they first met but that doesn't mean that he's thinking anything inappropriate.

As for breasts, sadly, we have little choice, if they come across our field of vision we look at them - hopefully only for a split second rather than leering at them - but we can't help looking even if it is totally inappropriate to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

Well i think what you are referring to is looking at you from head to toe... taking you in... but, if this makes you "FEEL" uncomfortable.. you are old enough to say so... along the lines of

i don't like it when you look at me like that, Why do you look at me that way it makes me feel awkward so please stop... after that, have a conversation with your mom.

i am not saying hes a perv.. but it kinda does make ya feel icky....

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A female reader, happytochat Australia +, writes (9 August 2009):

I think you should talk to your mum or another trusted adult about this. They will be in a better position to give you advice.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009):

wow I really think that sounds weird I mean hes your Dad I don't think he should be looking at you like that

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (9 August 2009):

Unfortunately all dads are also men.

He's probably just noticing how much you are growing up and turning into a woman now.

As for hugging you and tell you that you are beautiful... well that is just normal. You are his little princess and he wants you to know that. He wants you to not plaster your face and try and look older, and he DEFINITELY doesn't want any boys to come on to you because no boy will ever be good enough for you.

Dad's are annoying and weird and it's one of these things you just have to put up with.

Good Luck!! xx

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