A
female
age
36-40,
*anillafrost
writes:I've added this guy on my facebook a few years ago out of boredom but never talked to him because he lives in another country.So a few months ago he planned a visit to my country so we met up and I showed him around and we got along well.After a month I visited his country because I was sad and needed to get out. He showed me around in his country and nothing really happened.A month later he visited my country again because he just happened to cross my country for another visit. So we hung out again on Christmas and nothing much happened.Another month later we went to Greece together because he loves to travel and since he didn't have many friends in the new coutry he just moved to, he wanted to go with me and this time something DID happen!I always held his arm when we walk, because I just like to do that, with all of my friends. He hugged me while we were watching a movie, like around my waist and neck from behind because we were lying down. We didn't kiss though. He looked after me, made me breakfast, played with my hair, made me massage his back, took pictures, got lost in the mountains, feed me cookies and stuff.. I also did -_-The thing is, I always thought he was young for me(he knows this) and I treated him like my brother. But after hugging me like this I don't think I can be his sis anymore...!? We have a four yrs age gap. And I am kinda developing feelings for this guy!! .. sighSo he would randomly talk about a girl that likes him and he likes her too but thinks she's playing him, how he wish that she was more serious and come to me with his problems.He would ask me for advice on life, complains about people of his life and stuff. I would talk about guy problems, alsmost hitting 30 crisis. I am 27.While we were in Greece he received the bad news one of his relatives was dying so I did my best to be there for him. But seems like he wasn't willing to open up so I made him some hot chocolate instead and gave him a hug.He gave me his scarf while packing his stuff to leave, probably because I complained about not receiving a Christmas present from him while I did gave him a present? It was not even a present he bought. It was his scarf and he probably didn't like it or something? I jokingly said it's the last time we would see each other. He said: then I need some time to forget about you. I hugged him to bits before leaving but he seemed very uncomfortable with it and pushed me a little. He didn't even walk me to the gate! He was too tired(he stayed up for me because my flight was departing at 7 am) Anyway. Very offended but I didn't show. He didn't want to hug me goodbye!?So we said our goodbyes. I called him when I arrived at home and I told him I missed him. He was stuttering something: thanks, take care of yourself. He should've said I MISS YOU TOO! Yes. I am very offended.It's been two days, he didn't contact me at all. He liked my facebook post though -_-" But he probably has other things on his mind right now and I don't blame him.What do you guys think? Is he into me? or? Should I even confess to him? It won't make any difference will it? I do like him a lot! But I don't wanna make things awkward, so will it be better to keep my mouth shut and let it cool off and be his sis again? A lot more stuff happened.. I don't know if I can get it right on this one post to make things understandable. But please help me out.I miss him very much.. Thanks!!!
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