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I love my girlfriend but I don't trust her

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Question - (5 September 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 September 2013)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Please help me friends I am very depressed and stressed nowadays!

I have this girlfriend of mine from past 5 months. We are in a long distance relationship. We have just met 4-5 times since our relationship started.

I want you guys to know she is a bit fast forward type girl as I felt.

She has told me about her past a bit but not much.

She has told she was with a guy fir 10 days and than they were breaked up!

She was again with a guy sometime back but acc. to her that relationship lasted for a day, but I dont trust her!(here I wanted to tell firstly she didnot wanted me to give her fb password when i asked for it angrily she gave it a bit later, all was going normal but one day afternoon time she messaged me on facebook to come online, as I was sleeping so I couldnot reply her.After I got up from sleep, actually I didnot know she messaged me.

I opened her Id directly..There she was chatting with the person she told about me that their relationship lasted for a day. So then that guy said indirectly that that day kiss was awesome(in an indirect way). I kbow he was talking about the time when I was not in her life. but then also she has hided this thing from me. My gf replied " dont say these types of things here my bf has my password")

She has also told me that another guy 4 years bigger than her , she had disscussed sex positions with him

She has also told her cousions(male) made her read sex stories.

I dont trust her a bit. She use to be angty on me for small things. Some days ago she was really angry from me for a little thing.she started acting strangely I was not able to bear the pain so I cried over phone a lot. she then felt sorry to me. But ahe always use to do this with me..

I love her a lot, I cant live without her.

But I dont trust her a bit.

These things which she told me was just to gain my trust..But I know story is far away than what she told.

I also wanted to raise a point that she did sex chat woth me on the very first day of our relationship even I was not feeling well.

We havent had sex till now in real, just exchanged few kisses and all.

I also want to te that I am a shy person. I am a good person with no bad past.

She insisted me to propose her indirectly, but i love her so much

What should I do?

please help..

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (6 September 2013):

aunt honesty agony auntIf you do not trust her then end it because it will never work as a relationship.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 September 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif you don't trust her then you don't love her.

you can easily be without a woman you do not trust.

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