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writes: Shall I come back to my ex and marry him?I am now with a bf whom I fall in love with, but he is not into me that much during the 10 month dating. I am tired of disappointment and being hurt since he is very selfish and self-centered, I got hurt a lot. The days with him made me think about my ex-bf who is a super sweet guy but I do not have that much spark with him, when he pushed me to marry him 1 year ago, I turned down him and realized it was unfair for him to stay with a girl who did not love him that much to marry him. So we broke up for better of both side. Now I realized how much pain I have caused to my ex since how much he loved me is exactly how much I gave to my current bf. I felt guilty and very regretful-I want to move on and leave my current bf, but I do love him very much and always have that strong feelings to him-it is hard for me to make a decision, I tried to break up with him several times in the last few months but everytime I failed to break up with him through different ways including face to face, or email or text msg, he did not want to break up with me and does not want to let me go, but the thing is he admits how selfish he is, but he did not change that much.My ex called me recently and I knew he still loves me very much, I was his center of life and he said if I want, I will be still the one he wants to spoil/love and respect. I trust his every single word because when we were together for 4 years, he never delay any promise he made. The only problem is why I could not find that feeling for him? Shall I break up with my current bf and try to work on a relationship with my ex? My ex is the guy I can entirely trust and rely on. But I do not love him that much. My current guy I could not turst him that much, and he is very egocentric-love is blind, help me!!
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (10 April 2006):
 i think if you believe your current relationship isnt working and is causing you some much hurt. if you believe you should end it then end it. but dont try and get back with your ex you may have realize the break up was a mistake but you know that you don't really love him. so it would be completely unfair to him to renew the relationship if your not going to put your whole heart and soul into as he has. you should leave your ex to move on it would be selfish of you not to let him find some who will love him as much as he love her.
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