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writes:hi i really need help, i am 20 and my girlfriend is 18, we have ben together for nearly a year and she lost her virginity to me (hope thats the right way of saying it, sorry if that is disrespectfull), she has many guy mates and flirts with everyone but says she cant help it i did talk to her and said that it will eventually cause trouble..... at her works christmas party she was dancing with her mate who had a few drinks at the time and said that he likes her, when she told me i was angry but as i put information together i dont know what to do because this is the same guy she constantly used to flirt with when she was single and she had a crush on him for a year! and she thought she loved him earlier on in our relationship recently he said you wanna watch a movie together she agreed and this made me uncomfortable i talked to her and she didnt go but argued, i also think he influences her via text and she gets lead on what should i do i love her but this guy is getting to me.
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reader, DearDolly +, writes (15 January 2008):
 If you've talked to her about this and she carrys on doing things that are making you uncomfortable then why are you still with this girl?! You sound like a pretty decent guy and she sounds like she doesn't care about how you feel aslong as shes happy. I believe in relationships you sometimes have to make sacrifices to make your partner happy which it doesn't sound like shes doing without making a big deal out of it. Shes immature, get rid of her and find someone that will love and make you happy equally.
Best of luck.
Dolly.
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (15 January 2008):
 I think you need to talk. Don't argue, but ask her how she feels about you and why she wants to go out with this man alone.
If she says she loves you and you feel that she does, trust her.
If in doubt, explain that you love her, but feel she is disrespecting you by flirting with these other guy.
I have always been a serial flirt! I love attention and men seem to love women like that. But once in a relationship, I want to spend all my free time with my man.
So I think she is trying to keep her options open!
Good luck and feel free to let me know more!
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 Trust Your instincts.....Talk to her. If she refuses to talk about it then you need to move on. If she is evasive then you know that there may be something going on. But talk to her first! Don't assume anything. BUT TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS
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