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writes:ok so im 18 and single and i have this thing going on. say if im in the town or in a shop by myself, i sometimes have girls looking at me, id look back and shes still looking, but i have no idea what to do.. so id just stand there pretending that im looking at something interesting and then i'd walk off pretending im not intrested, then feel like i've wasted a opportunity, but this does happen alot. Reply to this Question
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reader, shandygirl  +, writes (14 January 2008):
 P.S. If girls look back at you, and keep looking, evidently they think that you are cute, or in reality you REALLY ARE CUTE and you don't even know it!
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (14 January 2008):
You Know what? I think if I were looking at you... and you "winked" at me, in a nice way, I would think that you are soooo sexy.
Girls like guys that display confidence. Whether you are confident or not. """The way you PRESENT YOURSELF is how other people view you.""" REMEMBER THAT !! And go with it.
For example: I have been in instances where men have threatened me, and I was scared to death. But instead of displaying FEAR... I displayed anger, and it fended them off.
People who don't know you, don't know what you are afraid of, insecure of, likes or dislikes. You can bluff girls into thinking that you are confident. Display it, and they will never know.
But remember... don't carry it too far, because girls don't like JERKY guys.
Act strong, act confident, act like a leader. Show your intellegence. Being insecure is "Your little secret."
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reader, Neboraic +, writes (14 January 2008):
i know how you feel, i also get the urge to RUN when a girl shows interest (out of nervous fear). Try couple dancing, i used to go salsa dancing and each lesson you would dance with 10 different girls, better still you would have practice holding them. You dont get much of a chance to talk so try to throw in short funny comments when the dance teacher isnt talking.
The next thing to do is wave to them, just a little wave, one that wouldnt be seen unless to those who arent looking at you. This is to make sure they are interested in you. Also if you are too shy, they at least know you are interested and may come to you.
The third thing to do is remove the fear of talking to strangers. Jobs are good at that, shops in particular.
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