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writes:My wife encourages me to dress as Joanne every day. She tells me that she told all of her co workers about me, about how my eyebrows are plucked into thin, highly arched lines, how my ears are pierced, how I keep my fingernails long and shaped and how I keep my body free of all hair. My wife started bringing a male co worker home with her and introduced me as her sissy husband, she makes me sit very close to him on the sofa until he leaves. The fourth time she brought him over, while we sat on the sofa, she had him put his arm around me, when it came time for him to leave, she made me hold his hand and walk him to his car. He then embraced me and kissed me hard on the lips for a good ten minutes before getting into his car and leaving. When I returned to the house, my wife said she seen me kissing her friend and if I wanted, the next time he comes over, we could use the bedroom. She said we make a cute couple and I didn't have to wait to get outside to kiss him, I could kiss him in the house, she don't mind. I told her that he kissed me and that I had no desire to have sex with him but my wife told me that if I wanted to continue dressing as Joanne, I would have to have both oral and anal sex with her friend while she watched and took pictures. I really love being Joanne and I never want to stop dressing as a woman but I don't know if I will like having sex with a man. What do you suggest ?
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (11 May 2020):
 I think, if you really want a second, third, fourth opinion, you should consult those who are more receptive to your BDSM lifestyle.
Then again, perhaps you've come to a vanilla site to encourage horrified responses that heighten your own sense of helplessness, humiliation and submission. Like a drug addicts 'fix'.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 May 2020):
 I suggest that you stop trolling our site . If you really must share your unappealing erotic fantasies, there are plenty of venues on line which are much more suitable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2020): Like singinbluebird; I also think you're just a rascal, and your entire story is made up! No pun intended!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2020): Your wife is dragging you out of the closet; and next she will divorce you, once it has been established that you are gay.
If you enjoy being a girl; she has to find you someone to complete your journey. Then she will leave, and find herself a man who enjoys being a man.
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reader, singinbluebird +, writes (11 May 2020):
 This is trolling only. Pretty sure OP is messing with us
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 May 2020):
 Her behavior is strange. I have to agree with Kenny that she seems to enjoy to emasculating you further. It's not just pretending you are a woman but demanding that you service her male friends sexually, while she takes pictures and watches...
That is just weird.
It can be that it's HER way of "punishing" you for not being the MAN she married.
Overall, it sounds toxic.
I think you need to have a mature adult chat about your marriage and boundaries.
On one hand you WANT to continue to dress up, you want her to accept that. On the other hand you seem like you have no say and just go along with you wife's whims.
Are you SURE she is as OK with this "dress up" situation as you "think" she is?
Is she wanting to take pictures to "out you" or to get ammo for a divorce?
Is she HAPPY finding out that her husband wants to dress up as a woman? You say she encourage it, but why? I really don't think the majority of women would WANT to have their partner do this.
Did she know BEFORE you married that you are into x-dressing? Did you know? Was it discussed?
I think you two need to have a healthy conversation and perhaps some guidance from a marriage counselor.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (10 May 2020):
 Sounds like your wife is getting a lot of pleasure out of belittling you at every chance she gets.
I'm sure at this point in your life this is something that you enjoy doing and would rather be kept behind closed doors. But i think its wrong of your wife to broadcast it at work telling all her colleagues.
To put you on the spot by bringing a male co-worker home, then saying that if you want to continue dressing as Joanne you would have to perform various sexual things while she watched is both wrong and degrading.
I'm guessing this is not a fantasy that she has always harboured for years and years, so i would be curious as to what she would do with the material if she were to film and take pictures of you having sex with another man. I would flat out refuse if i was you.
What is your relationship like with your wife when you are not joanne?.
It could be your wife is hurting thinking she has lost her husband. However her behaviour of telling her colleagues, bringing a male co-worker home and saying she wants to film and take pictures of you is just not normal.
You need to sit down and have a discussion with your wife about this, and sooner rather than later.
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