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I left my boyfriend for another man, but now that other man has left me for his ex girlfriend

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Question - (14 November 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ujubie writes:

So I wrote on here a little while ago about cheating on my bf well I ended up doing the right thing and breaking up with him. I continued to see the other guy but now he is back with his slut ex who treats him like shit. Well I have told him I had feelings for him but he chose to ignore that.

So on Wednesday night he and I had an amazing night and ended up hooking up at the end of it. And apparently the next day he got with his ex.

Well on Friday night i stayed at his house and he was acting strange but I just thought maybe he was super drunk before I got there and then just passed out. I just don't know what or how I should feel. I am mad at him because he is choosing to be with someone who treats him like complete crap. It is really upsetting me and I don't know how to deal with this issue. Should I just let it go or should I try and fight for something?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (15 November 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntlet it go....

what would you be fighting for?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2011):

Let it go.

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (14 November 2011):

natasia agony auntLet it go because he doesn't want you enough.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (14 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntLet it go, there is no point fighting for it, he has chose to go back to his ex and now you just need to accept that. I am sorry that you fell for him, but you cheated on your boyfriend with him, so my guess is that he would never have looked at you as girlfriend material anyway, because when someone cheats to be with you it sets doubt in your mind straight away. It sounds to me like he looked at you as a conquest and nothing more. You need to forget him now and move on and learn from past mistakes.

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