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anonymous
writes:Do you think it is a good idea to warn other women about men who prey on other women? I posted my ex on womansavers and dontdatehimgirl and I found other women who looked him up and posted comments about him on there too. I was shocked to see how many other women he has hurt. Should I feel bad for doing it though? I just felt like I needed to do anything I could to warn any other women about him....he is a monster.
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reader, brooke5426  +, writes (20 September 2007):
 i for one LOVE dontdatehimgirl.com. its a brilliant place to go and :
a) get closure by venting everything about the idiot who did you wrong
b) read about other women who had bad experiences and feel like its not your fault
c) warn other people about him and to find out about bad experiences other women have had.
don't feel bad. he damn well deserves it and your not doing anything wrong.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 September 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
I don't think you should feel bad about this. Like RCN said, these sites are made just for this purpose - for warning other girls about some of the creeps in the world. So if your ex really is a monster, good for you. Hopefully the next girl to date him thinks twice about it.
I wouldn't go public (i.e. putting up posters around the neighborhood), and I also wouldn't connect this website warnings to your name (you don't want your ex boyfriend to get pissed off at you).
Otherwise, good for you. You've done your part, now find yourself a guy who will treat you right.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, rcn +, writes (20 September 2007):
 Why would you feel bad about that? These sites would not exist if women didn't need to be warned about guys that cause pain.
I wouldn't do it in public and go to women you see eying him, for your own safety. I think women should be warned who the asses are out there.
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