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writes:I met this guy at work.. I wasnt really interested at first. But then we went out a few times after work with other co-workers, and got along and it was apparent that we were attracted to eachother. The first night we hung out he gave me tickets to his show, and I went the next day. When I showed up it was really obvious that we liked eachother. He texted me and told me it was nice seeing me and asked if I got home safe. The next time a coworker asked us both to go out after work, I said I couldnt because I had plans. He said he couldnt because he had practice, but then I ended up saying I could go, so he said he would go too. He sent me flirty texts later that night.I told him I was quitting our job and he tried really hard to talk me out of it. When I texted him the next day (he wasnt at work) to tell him I was quitting he said "that really upsets me. But do what you have to I guess."He ended up calling me a few days later, and we made plans to hang out. I told him me and my friend would be coming, I hate letting guys know Im interested in them! So I said MY friend wants to go somewhere new, so we should try your area. He wanted to get a hotel room and stuff because "we shouldnt drive that far".When I texted him next, he was happy to hear from me. He texted me a couple of times asking if I was still coming. I said yes each time. Long story short, my friend ended up flaking on me to go up there so I told him I couldnt go. I said I was sorry, but I couldnt come by myself.After that he started kindof ignoring me. I'd get sporadic texts from him now and then but nothing like before. Its me doing the work now.I went to his part of town and hung out with him last weekend, and it was really fun. He came to meet me by himself, I kindof ignored him for a few minutes but he wouldnt take his eyes off me. So finally we end up being together, and we kissed all night long. Sparks flew; we were both totally into eachother. He kissed me in front of EVERYONE. All of his friends were there, bandmembers, everything. He didnt even look at another girl. Was totally into me. We ended up having sex late late that night, but I was so messed up that I got totally dry..mouth and everything. It would have been good other than that. We both got dry... anyways. Our goodbye was rushed because I had to go meet my friend. Plus I was kindof embarrased. He told me to "call him later" when we were leaving. BUT I dont call guys. Homie dont play that.Is he waiting for me or is he over it? Its been 3 days since, but he hasnt texted me or anything. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): It sounds like he's probably testing you to see if you're actually genuinely intrested in him.Call him back if you like him that much.Even though you say you dont do that, isn't it worth it this one time?
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 He probably thinks it's you who isn't interested since he asked you to call him and you haven't!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 I'm sorry to say but you should probably forget about this guy.
For one, "you don't do that". Well he asked if you could call, and you havent because you dont do that, so that's it. He is waiting for you to call him its really as simple as that. I did the same years ago, I left it in her court and she never bothered to call me back, so I met someone else.
If he is like most of us guys then we appreciate it when the girl makes an effort every now and then just to let us know that all the effort we are putting in is worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007): That's horrible behaviour. Just call him and fix this whole problem. If you are interested in this guy, you should be willing to show him you're interested.
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