I'm a virgin, we attempted sex but he is too big for me?
Q. hi im 18 and ima virgin,me and my fiance have tried to have sex,but hes too big for me,i have relaxed as much as i can,but he is still too big for me! what can i do? i really want to have sex with him but its not possible at the moment! any t...
A. 23 November 2008: You really need to make sure that your relaxed and comfortable with it before it starts. a good idea is engage in foreplay first, just passionate kissing and caressing can do the trick. this can allow your vagina to make its own lubricant although ... (read in full...)
It hurts so much when being fingered, what's wrong??
Q. I've been fingered a few times and each time it hurts and thats only with one finger! Trying two fingers hurt too much and one doesn't even feel good, i can't tell that its in or not. is something wrong?...
A. 23 November 2008: there could be a few reasons for this. are you in the right mood for being fingered? because if not then your body may not be making enough lubricant for you, therefore making it painfull. Also if the person fingering you is being too forcefull it... (read in full...)
People are making fun of me because my dad died
Q. hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????...
A. 13 June 2008: Awww sweetheart... thats is really sad to hear that people can make fun out of such severe pain. all you can do is ignore them sweetie, im sure your dad would not have wanted you to start fighting with them. talk to your mum and the head teacher at ... (read in full...)
How can we get privacy?
Q. I've only been with my boyfriend for almost 3months, but we've kind of been on/off before that as i've known him sinse i was about 6 even though he's in the year above. I know you young people arn't supposed to know what "love" actually is, but i ...
A. 7 June 2008: well i cant blame yours and his parents for being in whilst you two are. me and my fiancce have been together a year and were both 18 and we only just get left in the house alone. your parents are just worried that you may get pressured in to doing ... (read in full...)
I'm having wierd periods after getting a contraceptive implant. Anyone heard of this?
Q. Okay In the beginning of March I had the contraceptive implant. My doctor said that my periods would be different like longer or heavier and that it's all normal. Before I had the implant my periods were pretty off anyway, like I would come on...
A. 21 April 2008: i have very strange periods too and im on the pill i come on very heavy and then maybe stop for a day then come on light then heavy again. this is more then likley the pill working with my body. but dont worry about wasting the doctors time if you ... (read in full...)
What can you tell me about the loss of libido as a possible side effect of the contraceptive pills?
Q. Quick question for fellow females (and men but cant imagine they would be much help on this one) i have read that a common side effect of the contraceptive pill is loss of libido! I am suffering from this I am on the microgynon pill to protect ...
A. 21 April 2008: hey ya im on the microgynon 30 pill myself and if anything it strenghens my labido, but stress or a busy life style can lower your libido. i have heard that loss or weakness of the libido can be a common yet mild side affect. but i think it could be ... (read in full...)
19 years old...is sex with my 16 yo gf wrong??
Q. I am an 19 year old and im currently in a relationship with a 16 year old girl. I am in madly in love with her and i have never felt this way about anyone else. I've been with her for over 6 months now and we are ready for sex, but im not sure whe...
A. 20 January 2008: there is nothing wrong with it if you are both in love. just make sure you do use protection and that it is somewhere special as uncle phil said. first time sex is a magical moment and i hope you both enjoy it... (read in full...)
He rubs his body on me and is generally very gross. What should I do?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. This boy has been flirting with me ever since school started. Hes confusing because he is flirty and then he gets gross. One time I was talking to my friend by my locker and he rubs my shoulder and says '' hey, check this ...
A. 18 January 2008: you have to report this, that is sexual harrasment, he should not touch you like that unless you approve of it first. you have to tell him back off and tell a trusted adult. your only 13 ans its totaly innapropriate, if you do tell someone and ... (read in full...)
What do you do when your life is going all wrong but you cover it up and act like everything is okay?
Q. what do you do when your life is going all wrong but to cover it up you fake a smile and act like its all, all right? see i have this boyfriend named Dylan hes suppost to be my love and everything but hes always agreeing with Joe. see Joe always ...
A. 18 January 2008: it sounds to me like your boyfriend needs to grow up, if he really cares he would back you up and say " no she's not like that" in sted of agreeing with joe. you really have to think about whether you want to be with someone who bad mouths you with ... (read in full...)
Can men and women really just be friends even though they've been together in the past?
Q. can men and women really just be friends even though they've been together in the past, my boyfriend of 10 years has quite a few girly friends who he keeps in touch with and my point is that the majority of these women have been his girlfriends and ...
A. 18 January 2008: well if he is mature enough to stay in a relationship for 10 years then there is a good chance that he is mature enoigh to just say no if these other girls make advances. i know im only 17 but i belive that if he has been with you for this long and ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my stretch marks??
Q. I am 15. I have very pale white skin, am only 5ft2 and am a size 8 but very fat and chunky. My boobs are 30G and they wont stop growing so that now they've got these hideous stretch marks. these are the questions: 1. are stretch marks very very ...
A. 12 January 2008: you can get a cream that pregnant women use for their strech marks on their stomachs and use that on your breasts. but i agree keep them out of the sun and keep them moiusterised ( cnt spell)... (read in full...)
Should I try this during masturbation?
Q. I'm only fourteen and have experimented with my fingers rubbing my clit. But I'm scared it will hurt if I put my fingers in my vagina. Any suggestions?...
A. 3 January 2008: the chance is that it will feel uncomfortable when you first put your finger(s) in your vagina as your body is not used to this level of intamicy (im assuming your a virgin) but just take it slow, put 1 in a little bit and only you will know your ... (read in full...)
I feel I am too old for Christmas and the traditional celebration!...
Q. i am 14 years old and in year 10 (in america 9 grade) for some reason i feel like i am too old for christmas e.g getting up early playing with presents and all the great things about christmas i love this time of year usally why do i feel too ...
A. 1 December 2007: hey howdy hey!!!!! im 17 and i still get up early and rush down stairs for my prezzies because i know my mum's braught me some random gift that will amuse me for hours... i do agree maybe toys are to old for you but christmas...nah! lol. just enjoy ... (read in full...)
What if I'm too tight?
Q. i'm 16 and am getting really close to this boy i've liked for ages and he likes me (he's 17). i've never had sex and i don't think he has either. i don't have a clue what to do! what if i'm too tight? and also, what about pubic hair? do you keep it ...
A. 20 October 2007: hey, i was in ur situation only a few weeks ago. when it comes to sex, you should be completly comfortable with it, dont let him pressure you in to anything your not completly comfortable with. second i think ( and ive been told by my GP) that if ... (read in full...)
My friend and I kiss and everytime he gets an erection! What does this mean?!
Q. Dear cupid, i see a good friend of mine quite regularly and its more like friends with benifits really coz we kiss and stuff like that, but every time we kiss or even hug he gets a full on erection! what does this mean? is it normal for guys to ...
A. 18 February 2007: i'd just like to point out that we dnt acctually have sex im still a virgin but he's not... (read in full...)
I can easily spend the day talking to people who aren't there...am I going crazy? What's wrong with me?
Q. Ok this is going to sound completely insane and i'm embarrassed writing this but I'm 22 and I talk to myself! Its like you know when your a kid and you just play little games and you have imaginary friends? Its kinda like that. I dont know if its ...
A. 29 January 2007: Hey... i talk to my self all the time, at school at work, its just the wya the mind works, its a very good way for your mind to varify what its being told or just for a convo if ur feeling alone!!! ur deffinatly not going crazy, sure its going to ... (read in full...)
We're now known as the "6-sluts-of-scool" even though only one was really slutty!
Q. omg help please i was at my friends sleep over (im 13) and her parents left to go to the store which was 60 mins away. aways we were watch this funnny movie and doing nails and hair. when this really popular girl who happens to be my neighbor says ...
A. 20 January 2007: you were right to say no to them, you would have eneded up doing something you would have regreted and you would have run the risk of getting pregnant if the condom split. i think you should stay were you are although if things are still bad after a ... (read in full...)
My friend thinks I've been saying nasty things about her and I haven't! But no one believes me. What should I do?
Q. hey im 16 and need advice, a girl i have been mates with for 5 years has started tellin people about my private life and telling people that i've been saying bad things about her ( which i haven't) now i'm losing all my friends and i have no one to ...
A. 18 January 2007: i have tryed talking to her and she just turned around and started taking the mick out of my mate saying that he's on my side and that he's a backstabber. im in a lose lose situation i really need some help.... (read in full...)
I haven't had a bf in ages and my friends are hurtful towards me - I'm so upset. Please help!
Q. Dear all those willing to listen to me... atm i feel very depressed i havent had a bf in ages and all the guys in my area and surrounding towns hate me and everywhere i go im known as the midge or the lezbo im sick of this reputation i mean im only ...
A. 16 December 2006: Thank you all for retuning to me so quickly and actually giving em helpful advice insted of ignoring me, i have started in the army cadets and im a volunteer at the local nursing home and next week im singing christmas carols for all the eldery at ... (read in full...)
How can I let this girl know I like her without making it obvious?
Q. hi, i have a problem i realy realy realy like this girl, she is 16 and im 19. How can i get this girl to notice that i like her without making it obvious(im not one of these guys that can just go up to a girl and ask them out) ? She is a cadet an...
A. 7 December 2006: well... first of all just start talking to her get to know her as friends first, go out and about down the town or where ever u hang... and say little compliments to her like " thats a great outfit you have on today ( insert name here)" and flirt a ... (read in full...)
I am 13. Is it ok to date a 16 yo?
Q. is going out with a 16 year old guy weird.if im only 13?...
A. 5 December 2006: yes is perfectly fine :) i dated a 13 yo and im 16.... so i cant really say theres anything wrong with it. just as anonymous said dont let him get you in to bed.... (read in full...)
I'm very self conscious about dancing... help!
Q. Hi- I have an important question that could really change where my life is going, but it is pretty embarassing and I don't think most people will understand. I am super self-conscious about dancing, and every time I go to a school dance (only a few ...
A. 4 December 2006: Right.... i think my best advice is to listen to the music that is most likley to be played at these events and practice dancing to them in front of a mirror or if that fails then ask a close female friend to help you out. if u ask a male friend ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and can't get a girlfriend!
Q. i'm 16 and have never had a girlfriend! what's wrong with me? i have many female friends and go out with them but never ever had a girlfriend! i'm not annoyin, i'm caring, good listener, and girls only keep me as a friend, but i'm not very good ...
A. 29 November 2006: im in the same boat except wanting a guy... the best tactic is being yourself and go out to clubs and partys, chat to girls and get some more female friends i know it sounds hard belive me it is... im having just as much trouble as you are... but ... (read in full...)
I want to have a bf, but being a goth doesn't help as the guys I know , all dislike me! What should I do -any tips?
Q. Hey need a lil advice from the guys really.... Um.. how can i start.... ive been single for a while now and i would really like a boyfriend but all the guys in my area/town hate/dislike me because i have a bad reputation (a castrator of all thin...
A. 29 November 2006: thank you all for the advice its going well so far and ive already met a few great guys :D thankies again!!!!!... (read in full...)
My bf's mate told me that my bf wanted to break up! My heart is broken so what should I do now?
Q. Hey guys... i need a little bit of advice... Me and my boyfriend split up last night after being together for about 2months. I really really loved him and when i was told by a mate ( because he was too scared to tell me himself) that it was over i l...
A. 21 November 2006: Yeh thanks for pointing out the obvious... i know i have to move on i stated that in the question. i was asking for a lil advice on how to move on.... (read in full...)
I like my friend, but the thing is she is a girl! am I bisexual?
Q. i have a boyfriend right now and i'm really happy with him. but i have this new friend and i'm attracted to them. but the thing is, is that my friends a girl. i'm still attracted to my boyfriend and other guys but i'm starting to find my friend ...
A. 17 November 2006: It sounds like you may be Bi - sexuall, and belive me its nothing to be ashamed of, im Bi and lovin it.. t can be a lil confuseing at first and it could just be a phase. but from what you have said then i would think you are bi sexuall... (read in full...)
I'm 17 - she's 15. Illegal?
Q. Hi, I was wondering what is classed as ilegal in the UK with an under 16 year old??? I'm 17 and she is 15! we are really love each other and want to get more physical but don't want to break the law! Please can you tell us what is ok? THANKS....
A. 20 August 2006: Dr.Pete is wrong 16 is the leagal age in the UK. ... (read in full...)
I dont want to have to tell the new guy about "my situation" until im settled, how should I handle this ?
Q. I have a conundrum. My long term boyfriend and I broke up a month and a half ago. We lived together, and I am staying elsewhere until our lease is up at the end of Sept. After that I will get my own place, etc. It was coming for a while, not a ...
A. 16 August 2006: there really isnt much to worry about if he does ask you out then just tell him " at the moment i'm fully booked because im moving house and my social life needs to go on hold untill im settled in so... its a yes but a late yes" and if he does like ... (read in full...)
Now normal is it for dad to perve at his daughters?
Q. hi, i'm 15. almost fully grown. is it normal for your own dad to look at their daughters bums or legs or boobs? cos i go and get a drink and i turn round to where my dad is, on the sofa and hes looking at my bum. i saw my mates dad look at her bum ...
A. 16 August 2006: Well to put it bluntly no. dads should not look at their daughters this way although many do. it is a pervey thing to do and is wrong on so many levels. your dad may find you attractive...( a sickining thaught i know) but as long as he doesnt ... (read in full...)
Scared to ask her out incase that isnt the vibe shes giving!
Q. Hi, I am attracted to a woman at work who says that she is in an unhappy relationship. I am 10 years older than her and she describes me as friend and mentor. However, I sometimes feel that she wants more but am not sure I would like our rel...
A. 21 July 2006: the best thing i think you should do is flirt a bit as friend s and see here reaction and talk to her and see weather she wants to stay in this unhappy relationship because you cant really ask her out while she is in a relationship. just give it a ... (read in full...)
Will guys care that I have braces? Are they worth it?
Q. I have a pretty bad overbite, and at the end of next month i will be getting braces. But i am really worried that once i get them i am never going to have a boyfriend. And that may sound weird, but it's the decideing factor in weither i am going to ...
A. 19 July 2006: hey braces are nothing to worry about i have them im 16 and ive had my braces sine 2 weeks before my 14th birthday
and to be honest more guys have been interested since i got them then before hand! some guys find braces cute. dont worrie about brac... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving too fast! I don't know whether I'm going to have sex right and I don't want to get completely naked!
Q. Hey guys, I know I've been asking a lot of questions lately but I really have just been thrown in to the reality pool at the deep end, so I'm really confused with everything. Anyway to the question... I'm 16 and my boyfriend has already had...
A. 19 July 2006: hey guys me again just wanted to say thanks for the advice it was a great help so far *hugs to all people that helped me*... (read in full...)
Is it right for a 21 year old guy and a 15 year old girl to be in a relationship?
Q. Can a 21 yr old and a 15 yr old be in a relationship? I know sex is out of the question and I'm not really bothered about that at all, it's just there's this awsum girl i know and we talk and spend most time texting and we seem to be gettin on ...
A. 17 July 2006: personaly i dont find it wrong at all if you like this girl and she seems to like you alot go for it, it doesnt matter what others think of you if your together thats all that matters. you have to bear in mind that there is a leagal age gap of 5 ... (read in full...)
What is it that women love so much about cuddling ?
Q. Why do women love cuddling? Many young girls, and even teens and adult women like to cuddle with their daddy. Its also pretty well known that women like to cuddle with their boyfriends or husbands, especially after they make love. So what...
A. 12 July 2006: When a guy hus a girl it normaly make the girl feel safe and secure in the arms of someone who cares for her and most guys wont admit it but its the smae case for guys most of the time its just an affectionate gesture thats means you care... (read in full...)
So many problems... can this marriage be saved?
Q. How do you know when a marriage has run its course? Is it when after 10 yrs together and your husband still won't compromise on even the smallest thing, like who gets a lie-in at the weekend because he works and you spend all your time raising the...
A. 11 July 2006: Well...It really depends on the love and the trust of the two of you if you both really love eachother and care for another then a sit down with him may be the answer some issues you have raised can take a long time to overcome if they can be ... (read in full...)
She's 14. I'm 16. Are the two years too much?
Q. Well. There is a girl of 14 who I fancy and am not sure she fancies me back. But anyway I am 16 and have left school, and my mate keeps taking the mick because I want to go out with a younger girl who is the same age as my sister. But I don't know ...
A. 11 July 2006: Hey if this girl likes you go for it im doing the same im 16 and my boyfriends 14 i get greif from people and i just tell them that its my decision not theres. just ignore them because they obviously have nothing better to do then take the mick out ... (read in full...)
He wants just the two of us to go out....but what do I tell my parents?
Q. my boyfriend wants me and him to go out like just me and him, my parents dont know about him and i going out ... it would be to embaresing to tell them they wont let me out of the house unless i have a reason, what shall i say im going out to d...
A. 10 July 2006: the best thing is to tell them the truth im in exactly the same situation most of the time and my dad hates it when its just the two of us but i told him its my life not his. just tell your parents you two are going out for a while down to the town ... (read in full...)
He has been with his mates for 2 days and now I am worried
Q. Ok! I need some advice, I may e being paranoid but could do with some help! My fella has jst gone off on his holidays with his mates. Ibiza for 2 weeks. We had an emotional goodbye and everything seemed ok. I spoke with him before he got on the ...
A. 5 July 2006: Its safe to say that most people would freak out in your situation but dont panic im sure there is a simple explination for it like his sim may not work over there and he hasent got the right cosh for the machine or he may just be out most of the ... (read in full...)
I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn? Any comments?
Q. As a man, I don't understand why women have this big problem with porn. Porn itself is not the problem. It the person. I look at porn 5-6 times a week. I watch some movies, read stories and Jerk off about 6 times a week. Also make love with my wife ...
A. 26 June 2006: Women tend to feel threatend by the models in porn as most of the time your partner will feel like there imperfections compared to those models will stop them from bng attractive in the mans eyes and are normaly feeling like the guy is interested in ... (read in full...)
Will the prom still be speical without me dancing with the girl I care for.
Q. I'm 16 and I have my prom coming up... I'm going to it but I'm not looking forward to it as much as everyone else is. The reason is I don't really like any girls in our school because I really like a girl outside of school. So what can I look ...
A. 18 June 2006: I had exactly the same problem and belive me the prom can be special with or without the one you care for just go with your friends and dance with a female friend or two. But trust me when i say the prom is an event you really would not want to miss... (read in full...)
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