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writes: Am I a fool still wanting to be with my fiance after he wanted to postpone our wedding?Just a few months before our wedding date, he wanted to postpone our wedding because he felt we were not as close as before. I sort of agree but think it is just a lul and we will get over it, so still wanted to be wed. Now the wedding is postponed, after thinking long and hard I want to work through this as I love him so much and want to spend the rest of my life with him. Am I being foolish to think we can get over this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHuh No! I love him and want to be with him for the rest of my life. I take marriage very seriously.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006):
Huh, are you really saying that you agree that you arent as close anymore but you just in this for a big wedging and if he cant give it to you now you might as well move on?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 I don't think you are being foolish but it is a good thing that he posponed the wedding if he is having doubts. You guys will need to have some nice long chats to see if marriage is right for you. Even if many don't, a marriage should be entered into with the thought that it's going to last forever. No doubts. Good luck.
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reader, Nikita  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 Hi there, Its better that he postponed the wedding then go through with it and regret it. He probably had pre wedding jitters which is quite common because after all getting married is a big step. If you still love each other and are still commited then I cant see no reason why you cant get married in the future when he feels more ready. At least he was honest with you. Have a good talk with him and see how he feels about the whole wedding thing. Does he still want to do it at some point? Maybe its better to have a long engagement to make sure that this is what you both want. If he says that marriage is not for him then you have to ask yourself if he's the man for you if you really want to get married but my advice is to talk with him and see where you stand. good luck!x
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