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I have real feelings for my cousing, but I don't know what to do.

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Question - (9 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Anonymous

(Not yet posted!) Hi

Im 16 years old boy and every few weeks i go to my grandmothers for the weekend.

one of the trips i spent up there my 12 yearold femaile cousin stayed too

Wev only seen eachother 5 or 6 times throughout our lives so we dont realy think eachother as vousins, but over the weekend we grew extremily close.

we secretly wanted to kiss and touch each other but knew it was rong so we kept quiet , 6 months later we havnt seen eachother but hav been texting and emailing every now and then, trying to meet up and nans again but it alays failed.

2 weeks ago we admited our feelings for eachother on line. we both realy like eachother but we decided not to go any further with it. Im not a peadophile, iv never fancied anyone younger than a few months younger than me b4 but she is diferent she is physicly and mentaly 14-15 years old. we conect in a way iv never felt in any other person.

This weekend i am going up 2 my grandmothers again and she might also be going.

I kno something is going to hapen,

i wont hav sex with her she is way too young for that, but she says she wants to kiss me and we kno i want to kiss her too.

I will only go as far as she is comfortable with but i stil am not sure wat to do

It is leagal wher i live but most people find it taboo.

I realy need help on this, is it just hormornes or do i need help and she is just having a sily crush?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008):

In the States, that it is illegal to have sex with anyone under the age of 17. Law says they cannot consent to having sex. I still find it wrong, even if it is ok where you live. I don't agree with it. Wait until she is old enough by the world's standards.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

totally wrong and disturbing. SHES TWELVE!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008):

Dr Vendetta is completely right. dont be a paedohpile, leave her alone and control your "feelings", teenage boys have sexual urges all the time it's just that most refrain from having them towards kids.

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (9 February 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntYou are 16.

You are also well on your way to becoming a pedophile.

what you are doing IS illegal. you are Grooming an underage girl.

She is your cousin. you need to Grow up.

I don't care if sex is legal here in the UK. sex and grooming a 12 year old for sex IS illegal.

stop seeing her. and get out of the house and meet women who you arn't related to.

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