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writes:I am dating a girl that I dated a couple of years ago. We have been dating for almost a month, and i got a picture of her holding another guys hand. She says he was only rubbing his hand. My other friends that know her say that I should cut it off. I don't know what to do. I love her with all of my heart. Should I cut it off? Reply to this Question
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reader, DragonMan  +, writes (13 March 2014):
 Greetings,
If she is denying simply holding hands then i would advise to be wary. Yes it might be acceptable but friends have been known to hold hands. The real issue is whether or not she respects you enough to be honest about it. The fact she said he was rubbing hands would be a lie if the picture shows clearly otherwise.
Don't jump to conclusions just yet but be wary with the portion of 'truth' you receive from her
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reader, Keeley345 +, writes (13 March 2014):
Done end your relationship over hand holding. Sure holding hands with another guy whom she's not dating is upsetting and unacceptable, but it's too small an issue to end a relationship over. My advice is to talk to her about it. Don't show her the photo, just wait for her to be honest by herself.
If she's honest with you and admits to holding hands with this other guy, you stand a good chance at forgiving and maybe continuing dating each other.
If she lies or denies it, then show her the photo, see her reaction and then demand answers. At this point you'll know if it's time to dump her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2014): If she saw a picture of you holding hands with another girl, would she trust you, especially if you said you were just rubbing her hand? If you believe she would, I would keep her around, but if you take into consideration that most people wouldn't fall for it, I would end that fast before complete blindness sets in.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 March 2014):
 This is a decision only you can make. You can take advise from your family and friends but at the end off the day this is your life and you should live it as you please. Although I will say in order for a relationship to work then there needs to be trust so you need to make sure that you can trust this girl to be faithful or else you will never be happy.
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