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writes:i am 12 years old. and i lost my virginity about a week ago. i have morning sickness i have strange cravings for pickles before i go to bed. but it may just be bkuz of my diet but i am scared.. wait no REALLY REALLY REALLY SUPER DUPER SCARED!!!-Allie
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): what were you thinking having sex at that age!? it was a stupid idea especially since it was unprotected, you are 12, if you only did this ecause your freinds did or he was older then i think you should seriously book up ur ideas and find some new people to speak to. its is not good or cool to loose your virginity, it jus giv you a reputation and it will only develope worse as you get older and your once friends wont speak to you then. i dont think you will be pregnant but your body wont be mature enough at your age for this
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reader, im-that-kinda-gurl  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Right for a start you are way 2 young 2 be having sex.U only had sex a week ago so tbh you dont get cravings untill later in to your pregnecy.The best thing you can do is wait and see if your period is late. If it is, go 2 a walk in clinc or even go 2 our school nurse, she will be able to give you advice. As well its in confidence, unless she thinks you could be in danger. hope this has helped uxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): You are too young to have sex, which shows because you can't handle the emotional side. Please look after yourself and be little, but almost big, a few years longer. There is no race and no need for you to give up your body until you find someone who will love, protect and cherish you. Having sex is a bigger deal than most people have led you to believe isn't it! It is not like anything else and the impact of having it too young for the first time is big. It is very unlikely that you are pregnant and too early for these symptoms to mean that. Most important, recognise that you are not old enough for this because of the extent of your emotions. Be smart about it, don't spend, spend, spend all your emotional currency without even realising that this is what is happening. You will have less to spend later when you can really love someone. Take care.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (21 August 2007):
 You wouldn't be having cravings that early hunni. It's only been a week. That's probably in your head because you are thinking you could be pregnant.
I would get yourself tested just incase you are. I would go see your doctor for a pregnancy test and they can also do an STI and AIDs test on you if you had unprotected sex. Ask also to go on the pill.
Unprotected sex is stupid, so next time don't do it then you wont have this panic!
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reader, love-him +, writes (20 August 2007):
 hey bbe, u only lost ur virginity a week ago, these symptoms dont start already. take a pregnancy test to make ur worries go away. use protection, ur only young.. hope i helped, let me no how u get on x x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (20 August 2007):
 You can't be having pregnancy symptoms one week after having sex. Those don't usually come on until around three MONTHS after conception. Whatever are you thinking? Having unprotected sex is very irresponsible and irresponsible people should not be having sex. Go to the drug store and pick up a pregnancy test and follow the directions.
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (20 August 2007):
 okay.... erm...where to start if uve started ur periods...then check when ur due if not...then seriously talk to your parents, and then most definetely go to a doctor no matter what the problem is...and no offence love but isnt it kind of illegal to do it at that age in the usa????nxt time...prepare urself and be a bit oldergood luckx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007): I'm not sure, wait a couple of weeks and if you miss your period then test.Personally I think your worrying too much about it. It's only been a week so I doubt you'd get morning sickness so soon. But you never know./
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reader, MX1216 +, writes (20 August 2007):
First of all you should seriously think about your situation. You are clearly a very young girl who made an adult decision. There are consequences to adult actions and you're learning the hard way. If you were smart about having sex and used a condom then you shouldn't be too worried because to me it sounds like you have a stomach flu or maybe you're dehydrated and the reason you feel like eatig pickels is because you're body is craving salt. If you already have started getting your period then you know that when you're body needs something you crave it. If you're on a strange diet that is for cosmetic reasons only get off of it. You are too young to be dieting. You're body needs proper nutrients and if you aren't getting it then you will feel sick. If you are having other symptoms like breast tenderness and swelling, fatigue, frequent urination, moodiness, and skipped periods tell your parents! in fact you should tell your parents or some one close to you who is an adult what happened. Usually when a person so young has sex there are other problems and other things going on in your head. Also the longer you wait the less options you have.tell some one and I hope you've learned something.-MX
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