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writes:I'm a self employed contractor of the grand old age of 20 (I'm afraid this may drag on a bit)and I fell for the daughter of one of the people I have been working for for years. it started last summer when I just asked her out, got no for an answer. next thing I knew she and I were going out (I dropped in conversation if she wanted to go for a drink a second time and she said yes). She's the nicest girl you could wish for, shes 3 and a half year older but that's nothing, and she has a strong devotion to christianity. Things are going nicely then she gets a teaching job in the city, nothing changes, then a few months later it's over and apparently she took me for a ride. Well I think it was more her friends disapproved of me when they found out. Not nice, and all that breaking up stuff. We still spoke and by x-mas it seemed that was the end of it. Easter holidays and she's got that cheeky grin back and loving look in her eyes. I admit I still love her and would love to be back with her it's just well we both know what we want but neither of us will take that leap, she still texts every weekend. This leads to awkward us flirting when shes back. A friend of hers told me the other day that a guy at her church has been after her and she's been doing her best to keep him at arms length. The trouble is she's the friendliest, sweetest person and lot of people mistake that for something else. Well I would do anything to have her back and would realy love to know how, but women are a mystery to me being a bloke, her parents were apart for a few years at this age so I don't know if she thinks she has to. It's just we're both holding back due to distance and her friends, just don't know what to do!!!
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reader, LauraE +, writes (9 July 2007):
You say that a lot of people misunderstand her friendliness. Maybe you are doing too. She tried going out with you and it didn’t work, but she still likes you very much as a friend and that’s all. Difficult for you as you are working for her parents. If you can’t stand it, get another job.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 July 2007):
 I don't think a girl leaves a man because of her friends' opinions. I think she likes you, but doesn't love you. But, I might be wrong.
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