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I got drunk at a party recently. This sober boy hugged and kissed me. Does this mean he likes me?

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Question - (2 June 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 3 June 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm 16 and I got drunk at a small party last week but this sober boy made me feel special he hugged me and held my hand all night he even kissed my head. He said I had to prove I was straight to him and I laughed it off (nothing happened). At school he hasn't talked to me and I'm worried he may make me out to look like a 'tart' my beat friend is friends with him so I haven't told her. Does he actually like me? I never get attention from anyone so I'm so confused HELP!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (3 June 2014):

Honeypie agony auntMy advice don't get drunk again for a while. At your age, it's not safe at all.

And I agree, the fact that he hasn't talked to you since, but was OK with hugging and kissing you while you were drunk (and vulnerable) I would take as, he was testing the waters to see how pliable you are.

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A male reader, Mark1978 United Kingdom +, writes (3 June 2014):

Mark1978 agony auntGetting drunk when you are young and at a party is not a great idea. Others may do it, but you need to be careful!

A sober lad getting touchy feely with a drunken girl = recipe for getting taken advantage of.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (3 June 2014):

If he hasn't talked to you at school while you're sober; might mean he's not sure if he does or not.

Hugging and kissing a drunk person doesn't necessarily mean you like them. You have to be very careful about getting drunk at such a very young age. It sends out a bad message about yourself, and it's not very responsible. Letting boys touch you while you're drunk and out of it is not safe.

He might have been taking advantage of you; because you were tipsy. He could have done whatever he wanted, if you weren't sober enough to stop him. You might not have made the best impression that night.

It's hard to tell. He may have liked you "before" he saw you drunk. Maybe now he's not so sure about the type of person you are.

Just because a boy hugs and kisses you doesn't mean he likes you. He could only want sex.

Be responsible when drinking, and you don't have to worry about if someone has a negative opinion of you.

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