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I forgave her, but I think she is at it again. What should I do now?

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Question - (3 May 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2011)
A male India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i feel like my GF is cheating on me because she is not talking to me from last week till today..she is not replying me for my any messages on facebook..but she is chatting with others..but suddenly when i said hi today, she said "hi i love you, and she told me if you wanna make me dont ask ant questions about last week".. and i said "ok fine"..and we started chatting..but her behaviour is like "I dont want you anymore"...and somehow after that i caught her having an affair with her ex again.. And we Argued..and finally she said sorry and she asked for forgiveness..and i forgave her.. and again after two days started to behave as earlier..and im really pissed.. what should i do now??

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A male reader, Dr T Ireland +, writes (9 May 2011):

Find someone who appreciates and respects you mate. Life is too short to endure the crap she is throwing at you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2011):

She needs to grow up and you shouldn't have to raise an adult! Tell her you are sick of giving your best to someone who doesn't appreciate you. If she can grow up and stop her roving eyes on Facebook, then maybe she can call you sometime.

I am starting to hate Facebook. Seems like stomping grounds for cheaters and cyberflirts. Some people are just selfish and can't just be happy with what they have. They want more than having their cake - they want the whole damn bakery. They will have it if you don't show some self respect and say NO - that's not happening if you wanna be with me!

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A female reader, LW United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2011):

Hi :)

I feel you should break up with her, by the seems of it she wants you to be faithful to her, but is not willing to do so with you.

Either stay with her knowing that she does not really love you and will keep doing this to you until the end of time, or call it a day and hopefully the next gf you have will be a bit nicer to you!

Good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011):

Stop forgiving her.

She won't respond to verbal pleas, she will only respond to actions from you. Tell her you are splitting up with her. And be prepared to do it.

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